as bad as him?

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Registered: 05-02-2007
as bad as him?
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Wed, 05-02-2007 - 10:26pm
hi im new .... so kinda found out my b/fs been LOOKIN online cause he was bored and now i 'm spending all my time trying to get other guys attention - fantisizing about guys i barely know flirting like the slut i used to be etc... part of me wants to act on it sooo bad but then im like that makes me just as bad as him ...so is revenge the best medicine?
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Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: foxygurl24
Wed, 05-02-2007 - 10:44pm
Hi and welcome foxy; No, revenge is not the answer. Have you tried talking to him about it and letting him know how you feel?



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Registered: 05-02-2007
In reply to: foxygurl24
Wed, 05-02-2007 - 10:48pm
yes ive tried but he doesnt think he's wrong-ever! so i think ive givenup i have needs too emotional & physical he's not waiting around for me so why should i suffer?
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: foxygurl24
Thu, 05-03-2007 - 6:48am

Hi foxygurl24 and welcome to the board. I don't think you should suffer, but two wrongs don't make a right.

When you say he is looking on line, what exactly does that mean? Is he looking at porn? Is he talking with other people? Has he put an ad on an adult website? Is he soliciting through a blog?



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Registered: 04-29-2003
In reply to: foxygurl24
Thu, 05-03-2007 - 9:42am
Doesn't sound as if that approach is going to get you two happy in the sack together.
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Registered: 01-10-2007
In reply to: foxygurl24
Thu, 05-03-2007 - 10:04am
Revenge will bring nothing but additional trouble. A sure fire way to end your relationship. Talking is your best bet.
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Registered: 04-20-2007
In reply to: foxygurl24
Thu, 05-03-2007 - 10:16am

Do you have strong feelings towards this guy?

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Registered: 12-12-2006
In reply to: foxygurl24
Thu, 05-03-2007 - 10:20am

He's looking, you're flirting with other guys. Sounds like a romance made in heaven!

If he's bored, you might want to ask why. If he's looking, then why don't you both just walk away, and be free to look or act on it.

It sounds like something from a school playground.....nyah, nyah, I'm getting even with you. That does't fix problems, it only creates more problems.

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Registered: 03-08-2004
In reply to: foxygurl24
Thu, 05-03-2007 - 10:38am

He's looking on-line, your flirting and thinking about acting on it for revenge, why are the two of you together?

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