Balls

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Tue, 05-09-2006 - 6:26pm
Just wondering what role the balls play in your lovemaking. How much attention is given to them and what is done to them and when? And guys (on the average) do you think women should pay more attention to them.

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In reply to: sugarbeat
Tue, 05-09-2006 - 6:30pm
A lot, when I need to. When the DH is needing a little extra stimulation or when he's taking a bit too long to finish, I will caress them and massage his perineum, too. Works every time.
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Tue, 05-09-2006 - 7:54pm

During oral, a lot of attention is given to them, massaging, licking, sucking.


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Tue, 05-09-2006 - 9:40pm

situational........if he is sore in pain due to lack of sex and ejaculation no need to touch them,"they hurt" otherwise "play with my balls babe" during oral yes special attention is paid to the "my balls"

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In reply to: sugarbeat
Wed, 05-10-2006 - 11:31am
My SO seems to enjoy ball playing more than playing with his member. He loves it when I suck each one into my mouth, tug his scrotum skin, and feel the cord on each orb. When I want him to finish during IC, holding and touching his balls and cords causes him to pull them up and empty them quickly.
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Wed, 05-10-2006 - 2:05pm

My bf has extremely dangly ones particularly in the summer when it's hot and we're just starting out. As he gets toward orgasm they pull up several inches and become tight and round, but in the early stages of i/c he always wants me to cup them with one hand and hold them up, otherwise they just bang into my bum and i guess it doesn't feel very good at all. It's *weird* how far his hang down sometimes but I guess every guy is different. During oral I make sure his balls don't feel at all left out -- for him the magic move is to tongue them underneath, right where they attach to his perineum. It's interesting because although he doesn't shave them, he doesn't have any hair on them, which is why i guess i'm a bit more aware of them than on guys in the past. Sometimes he will like them to be gently squeezed or better yet sucked on as he's cumming.

While we're on the topic, the part I don't understand is that while I gather semen is not stored up in the balls, they seem to become noticeably larger when he's really horny. I believe I can tell in an instant how "full" he is. Is that so, or am I just imagining it?

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Wed, 05-10-2006 - 7:47pm

>While we're on the topic, the part I don't understand is that while I gather semen is
>not stored up in the balls, they seem to become noticeably larger when he's really
>horny. I believe I can tell in an instant how "full" he is. Is that so, or am I just
>imagining it?

No, semen is not stored in the balls, but sperm are. When that period of ejaculation inevitability first starts, contractions in the "boys" forces more wigglers into already filled cords and up into the prostate where they are mixed with fluids to make his semen. If highly aroused, it can be quite painful when the spasming orbs force additional sperm into already swollen and sore cords. In a couple seconds the freshly prepared mixture is forced out with hard prostate contractions to a new (temporary) home.

Arousal causes the balls to enlarge and hang lower. Although not life threatening, their additional weight pulling down on increasing painful cords can cause a guy to reassess his situation.

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Thu, 05-11-2006 - 10:03am

>>the part I don't understand is that while I gather semen is not stored up in the balls, they seem to become noticeably larger when he's really horny.

Not sure, but I'd guess they get engorged some with arousal like the penis, so if it's been a while they're probably staying that way. Also just before orgasm they pull up closer to the body, which probably makes the sack look/feel more full 'cause it's drawn up tight.

They dangle down, especially in the heat, because Da Boys need to be a couple of degrees cooler than body temp for sperm production; that's why the old wives' tale about briefs being bad for guys with low sperm counts. Weather gets hotter, they want more room to stay cooled off.

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Thu, 05-11-2006 - 11:50am

Interesting. Yeah I've had a few bfs and I kind of knew that but this guy's are way more dangly than the others. Put it this way, not to TMI anyone: we were having i/c on the couch last summer in missionary position with my legs up on his shoulders, and his balls were literally hitting the top of my bum crack until he got more warmed up and they started to pull up as you say. That's when he asked me to hold onto them, because it wasn't comfortable, so I now I always to that, it's just one of our things.

It's not after they get tight that I'm talking about, you can just kind of hold them in your hand and they seem a little heavier or something. You guys are endlessly fascinating lol.

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Thu, 05-11-2006 - 12:48pm

This is kinda OT...but this thread reminded me of a funny memory...

My grandmother used to have a specific exclaimation that she used in place of cuss words when I was a child...she would exclaim "Balzac!" as a replacement for other four-letter words.

If she dropped something in the kitchen, she would say "Oh, Balzac!"...or if someone ticked her off she would call them "an idiot Balzac!"...or if us grandkids were out playing in the mud or something like that she would yell "get your Balzacs in this house!".
I always thought it was a reference to a literary character, or some other pop culture reference to her youth. It wasn't until I was much older that I realized that what she was actually saying was "ball sack"!

I found out after she passed away that it was quite a family scandal that Grandma used a slang term for scrotum as her swear-word! Apparently it had something to do with Grandpa's anatomy, but no one in the family would ever own up to fully knowing the story behind it!
But now I have to laugh anytime I think about my little old grandmother yelling about ball sacks all day long! LOL!

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Thu, 05-11-2006 - 1:46pm
I always used to laugh when the older brother on "Wonder Years" would call his little brother Kevin, "Scrot."

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