Barely any cum during orgasm...

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Registered: 02-29-2008
Barely any cum during orgasm...
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Tue, 05-20-2008 - 3:28am

Hi Everyone!


I've had sex with this guy 4 times now and it wasn't until recently I came across this discovery...

The first few times we had sex it was vaginal and with condoms, the next was anal and I let him cum inside my ass. Then this last time we had vaginal sex without a condom.

He wanted to cum in my mouth but I didn't want to cause it was a long day, my mouth was all dry and I thought he might be all Peter North on me and I wouldn't be able to take it.

So he starts jacking off and comes on my boobs. I'm watching him cum and barely anything comes out! I'd say barely a teaspoon. Previous men I've been with have shot out tablespoons of cum so I'm wondering if the small amount of ejaculation is normal...

It doesn't bother me, heck, I would have taken that "load" in my mouth had I known, but I'm just wondering if that could be signs of something more (i.e. prostate issues).

Thanks for the help!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 05-20-2008 - 8:46am

Welcome to the board, Stacie.

The amount of cum can vary, especially if he's been ejaculating a lot. You didn't mention your ages, but the intensity of it "shooting" out can also vary, but often lessens with age and the frequency of ejaculation.

I wouldn't think it's a sign of a health issue unless it's something that happens all the time.


















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Registered: 11-17-2007
Tue, 05-20-2008 - 8:52am

If he is masturbating a lot the amount of cum per ejaculation will go down.


BTW-I strongly suggest using a condom during anal sex-everytime.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-12-2006
Tue, 05-20-2008 - 10:47am

Men are ALL different, just as women are!

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-29-2008
Tue, 05-20-2008 - 3:06pm

Thanks everyone for your input!

We are both early 20 somethings and are each other's only active partners. We've known each other for several years and are aware of our past sexual experiences. I do take an oral contraceptive and we normally use condoms as well. It wasn't until a few months ago that we decided to give a relationship a try.

I'm glad to know that the amount of his ejaculation is not something to worry about. I guess from my past partners and what I've seen in porn, I was under the impression that wasn't "normal".

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2007
Tue, 05-20-2008 - 4:35pm
My bf almost always chooses to ejaculate externally so I've seen him do it many times ... all i can say is, there's much much more if he hasn't had sex or gotten off for 3-4 days. If we're having sex twice daily, there's far less, I would say *less* than a teaspoon.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-12-2006
Tue, 05-20-2008 - 5:37pm
Don't EVER think that what you see in porn is "normal".......far from it.
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Registered: 06-04-2004
Tue, 05-20-2008 - 5:56pm
Well for me I dribble sometimes and I have times when I have a flood. In my case its how long I have ramping up as to my volume. I know one time where we had sex 7 times in a day and by the end of that day DW was lucky enough to get a dribble. Then there was a time where I was not with her for a week but we were in constant contact sexually teasing each other. In other words a full week of foreplay. Then when we did get together I made a huge mess!
Now as far as Pornos go, a lot of that is stunt cum. Special effects. Do not try to hold yourself or anybody else up to those standards. If that were true all women are horny multiorgasmic and availible 24/7. All men have a min of 8 inches,are hard all of the time and can cum a quart every 15 mins. All of the sex ends in a mutual orgasm. Its fun to watch. It inspires my DW and I to wild abandon but Its not reality.
-Gerry-



-Gerry-






iVillage Member
Registered: 04-18-2008
Tue, 05-20-2008 - 8:08pm

Stacy,


One other note to add to all the others' comments. Dehydration/hydration levels also matter. I know on days where dh runs a long run or has along exercise session or is plain dehydrated from other factors, he cums less volume. We have sex almost daily if not multiple times and we have noticed changes in his hydration level to make a difference.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-28-2008
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 4:04am

Hi Stacie


The average amount of semen ejaculated by a male is only around 3-5cc. When I request a semen sample from a guy, I tell them not to have sex (ejaculate) for three days before collecting a sample. It takes about three days for the average male to reload their clip. At four days you run the risk of the guy dumping his load at night when he is asleep.