be gentle please...it`s my first time

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Registered: 07-02-2005
be gentle please...it`s my first time
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Tue, 07-05-2005 - 9:12am

Hi there (I`m a chap by the way)

I`ve fallen in love with one of my best friends - this is totally cool as it`s reciprocated. We`re on opposite ends of the planet at the mo`, but she`s coming to live with me in september...the thing is, I`m a virgin & I`m obsessing about the first time we make love. I know that women aren`t operable by instruction manual, and probably the only thing to do is relax & enjoy it, but can anyone offer any tips? I want to show her a good time y`see.

Much appreciated
Chris

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 07-05-2005 - 9:45am
Hi Chris and welcome to the board and don't worry, we're always gentle around here.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 07-05-2005 - 11:45am

Chris, don't worry about giving her a "good time." Don't worry at all.

Be honest about your virginity, in your expressions and motivated to be in the moment with her. This isn't the time to try and impress her with your technical skills but to be completely open, intimate and loving. Since this is a real relationship, emotions will be front and center the first time and this is the learning period.

Besides, your and her hormones will provide most of the excitement for the first few months. LOL!

Ask HER how she needs to be pleasured. That should be the first step to any new relationship anyway.




Edited 7/5/2005 11:50 am ET ET by katmandoo2001