Beautiful inside -- ugly outside
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Beautiful inside -- ugly outside
| Wed, 05-17-2006 - 4:54pm |
Finally met the man of my dreams -- until I slept with him. He is the hairiest man (by far) I have ever seen. His back and butt are covered with hair. His uncircumsized penis is enormous (hangs down to almost his knee) and his scrotum is twice as big as I have ever seen, with fur all over it to boot. His testicles are as big as eggs and slap hard during sex.
He is wonderful, though. Warm, gentle, never degrading. I hate being shallow and I certainly have my flaws and baggage, but I am really having a hard time with this.
Maybe I can grow to be attracted to him, but it will take a LONG time. Anyone in my shoes?

lol your post made me laugh, your description of this guys was hillarious...lol
anyways... i'm sure he's not THAT bad.
You can suggest waxing his hair or trimming. As far as his penis size and scrotum... well there is nothing he can do about it. Besides big penis is attractive... maybe he can trim his testicle hair too?
He just needs to be groomed. I hope it works out for you two.
I'd hope you'd learn to accept him as he is (and maybe even love those qualities that gross you out right now) as the relationship grows. Until then, if it really bothers you, I suppose it wouldn't be totally out of line to ask him to consider waxing or trimming.
With my boyfriend, it took me a while to get used to him because his body was so different from the previous guy I was with and my ex was my only frame of reference. As we developed our own sex life together, I eventually came to accept and love every part of him, hairy areas and all. I hope this will happen for you, but I don't see anything wrong with asking him to trim or wax. Does he seem sensitive about his body?
I think that it happens to us all. I mean I thought that I'd met the perfect woman - intelligent, successful, well groomed, warm, caring, sexy and gorgeous until I slept with her and discovered she had breasts like fried eggs when the pushup bra came off, stretch marks that glowed in the dark, enormous flappy labia and the hairiest nether regions ever seen on a woman....
OK, I'm making that up. But what advice can you give to a person that likes you but is revolted by your physical attributes? It's just not going to work in the long run, is it? Perhaps you could get him to wax, perhaps you can shave the fur. I dunno. But like you said, your not physically attracted to him. Move on. Let him find someone that likes him, you can find someone that you like better.
Edited 5/17/2006 11:00 pm ET by westridge2001
She (dnkysho) might consider passing him on to any number of these women who insist that their pathetic "DH's" don't measure up, physically.
And it even sounds like he is considerate to a woman's needs.
One woman's nightmare is another woman's dream. I'm so with Westie here. If you're already focusing on all his "faults" then you aren't in love with the guy. Move on.
And don't forget, HE may be dealing with similar issues about YOUR body. This does go both ways, you know.
Edited 5/18/2006 11:19 am ET by katmandoo2001