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bedroom payback
| Sun, 07-29-2007 - 1:20pm |
O.k this isn't strictly about sex but this seemed the most appropriate place to post this...
Me and Honey were play fighting and resulted in her biting me lots... she got carried away and several days on I have bruises all over my body! So what is a good way I can get her back? I don't want to let her get away with it! ; )

What you do is talk with her and set boundaries.
I don't understand? She says "she doesn't treat men as having feelings..." What is that supposed to mean? She thinks it doesn't hurt when you bite so hard it leaves bruises?
If you didn't like it then, you should have TOLD her then....but since you didn't tell her then.....tell her NOW. You don't get "even"......you set your boundaries, and if she continues to do it, then maybe she's not the right partner for you.
Playful nips are one thing, they can be fun. Leaving bruises borders on S&M, and if you're not into it....then tell her to stop. Period.
Welcome to the board rebel_rebel.
I think you've gotten some great advice here. When enjoying rough play in the bedroom, it is wise to have a safe word as Tish described. If you don't want to play rough in the bedroom, or as rough, you need to talk with her and let her know. Getting even will likely just get you into a situation you really don't want to be in, and it certainly won't teach her how you want to be treated.
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