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| Wed, 12-08-2004 - 12:36am |
I would like to have a sex with my partner, but I do not know how to get start and on the same time I am worried if my partner think that I am sex minded person.
How shall I get started to have sex with my partner. Can anyone advise me.
Thank you.

I think you need to give a bit more info before anyone can give any advice:
1. are you male or female?
2. age of both of you?
3. how long have you been together?
4. have you two had sex before?
As Rainbow said in her post to you, we need a bit more information.
Are you male or female, how long have you been with your partner, have the two of you done anything sexual (oral, touching each other sexually, etc), what are your partners views on sex, etc.
I would like to provide some information as per requested about myself. I'm am male and my age is 29 and my partner is 27.We have been together for 1 year.
So far both of us do not have any kind of sexual contact.We have only touch each others hand so far. She does not show any sign that she would like to have sex and I could not read her mind on this matter. But both of us trust each others.She knows that I am a person that enjoy to look at beautiful things
I hope you could give any suggestion from here.
Just to clarify, you both haven't been with anyone? Or you have been with other people, just not each other?
But regardless, don't rush into sex. I mean, some couples can go from a "hello" to intercourse in one date. But generally speaking, one thing leads to another. You two have so far only held hands... next it should be hugs, cuddles, kisses. Then after you're comfortable enough with that (mutually), you can move onto touching/kissing/rubbing each other's body. Then eventually move onto full sex. For some couple the trip could take days, for some years. It depends on how your relationship develops. So, for now my advice for you is to create a romantic date, spot a good timing, stare each other deep in the eyes, and plant one on her lips.