Beginner sex to intermediate- need tips!
Find a Conversation
Beginner sex to intermediate- need tips!
| Fri, 04-27-2007 - 9:20pm |
Hello-
my boyfriend and I have been having sex for about 5 months now, and have been together about 9 months. We were both pretty inexperienced, although he had more experience than I did! We are still very spontaneous- we like to do it in different places at all times of day, but I'm just looking for some things to spice it up. We have tried missionary, doggy style, me on top, and him standing in front of me while I'm sitting. What other positions can we try? What other things can I do to spice it up without being just way out there? I'm kind of shy, but naughty... I love to have sex, but I'm still a bit shy to try a lot of wild things. Any suggestions? THANKS!
my boyfriend and I have been having sex for about 5 months now, and have been together about 9 months. We were both pretty inexperienced, although he had more experience than I did! We are still very spontaneous- we like to do it in different places at all times of day, but I'm just looking for some things to spice it up. We have tried missionary, doggy style, me on top, and him standing in front of me while I'm sitting. What other positions can we try? What other things can I do to spice it up without being just way out there? I'm kind of shy, but naughty... I love to have sex, but I'm still a bit shy to try a lot of wild things. Any suggestions? THANKS!

Something you may want to invest in is a Kama Sutra book that shows different sexual positions (64 positions if I recall correctly). Here are some of them:
10 Hot New Sex Positions
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/sex/no/articles/0,,544153_633458,00.html
This site shows several sexual positions also:
http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/casofchar.html
You did say that you try different times of the day and different places. Some other ways that you can add fun to your sex are role play, watching porn together, incorporating sex toys, etc.
A game is always spicey and fun. I'm not sure what kind of sex store you may have in your area but here we have Adam and Eve and Fantasy Lane. Try going to a store like one of those and get a sex game. They are fun and mysterious. You can also buy them online.
I hope that helps some!