Being an AA cup turns me off
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Being an AA cup turns me off
| Mon, 11-06-2006 - 7:35pm |
I'm a 34AA; as Keira Knightley once said, I don't have breasts, I have pecs.
While the rest of me is 25, my chest seems to be permanently stuck at 11. It's difficult to see a part of your body as sexy when it looks as if it belonged on a child.
The boyfriends I've had have said things like "it doesn't matter, I like you anyway", but I've never been comfortable with having my chest touched or with thinking of it as sexual.
How can I overcome this? Any advice?

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1. Spend zillions of dollars to get implants and hope that improves your self-esteem.
2. Live with it and hate your body for the rest of your life,
3. Come to accept that just as breasts come in all shapes and sizes that men also prefer all different shapes and sizes. Accept that there are also men out there that would much rather have a confident, well present and happy woman with smaller breasts over an ordinary woman with bigger breasts. Acknowledge that Keira Knightley has no shortage of male admirers and they haven't been put off by her breast size - or lack of it. Take comfort in the knowledge that if she is doing so well with small breasts then there must be a lot more to a woman's sex appeal than just her breast size.
It's really sad that you define yourself and/or your sexuality by your breasts. I would say that most men don't care about breast size on someone that they really care about.
True that most men like to "ogle" big breasted women...but that's because they're abnormal! There are many advantages to having smaller breasts. When you lie down, they don't wind up in your armpits! When you get a little older, they don't sag down to your belly. If and when you have children, just being pregnant, and then nursing will make them larger.
You could always get implants.....and risk the chance of them looking unnatural, which most of them do. Also, are you aware that once they're done, they don't last "forever"...every 10 years or so, they have to be redone.
Once upon a time I was a 34A........and after several years and 3 children, I became a 40DD...and I'd give anything to go back to the 34A.
Your breasts don't make you sexy......your brain does.
Your whole body is sexual and it has nothing to do with your breast size.
It really all depends on what is going to make you happy. The other posters have brought up true and accurate facts. Kiera Knightly is only one example, many small breasted women are terribly attractive, and also quite confidant. On the other hand, if it is always going to bother YOU, implants might be the way to go. I know women that have had modest sized implants, just so clothes would fit them better, and they would have more options when buying clothes. I for one, don't get very excited about fondling fake breasts, but I know alot of guys that like them. To tell you that there are not guys only attracted to women with big breasts, is just being naive, they are definitely out there. Just like there are definitely women that are quite concerned about a guy being well endowed. But I have also known guys, that swear they don't care, and much more interested in a nice ass (speaking of only physical traits here).
There are definitly guys out there that will find you just as attractive now, as if you had bigger breasts. There are guys that won't. But then again, some guys just want to find a redhead, or a blonde.... If you are only going to be happy with bigger breasts, go buy some!
good luck
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