Being an AA cup turns me off
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Being an AA cup turns me off
| Mon, 11-06-2006 - 7:35pm |
I'm a 34AA; as Keira Knightley once said, I don't have breasts, I have pecs.
While the rest of me is 25, my chest seems to be permanently stuck at 11. It's difficult to see a part of your body as sexy when it looks as if it belonged on a child.
The boyfriends I've had have said things like "it doesn't matter, I like you anyway", but I've never been comfortable with having my chest touched or with thinking of it as sexual.
How can I overcome this? Any advice?

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I don't think women are "encouraged" to do anything at all. Nor are they "encouraged" to think of themselves as a "bunch of parts". Women can and should think for themselves. Just because runway models are anorexic, that doesn't mean all women want to be toothpicks. And have you checked out the breasts of most runway models? They're practically non-exsistent......and most of them go braless!
Women that are secure in themselves realize that NO WOMAN is perfect, and no normal rational decent man expects perfection. Sure, there ARE men who "like" big breasts, and like to LOOK at them, but they realize they're usually phony, too. That doesn't mean they want THEIR mate to look like that....only that they're an oddity to be gaped at.
And who would want a man who bases his "feelings" on your breasts, no matter what their size! If a man can't see and appreciate ALL of you.....he's not worth your time.
The bottom line is that if it bothers you that much, you can have implants. But, when you're done, you will still be the same person, only with larger breasts.
The only women who are encouraged to look at themselves as parts or they should look like this or that are women who allow themselves to fall for that crap.
Whenever I watch the commercials or open a magazine that's aimed at women, I'm swamped with messages: "do this to your eyelashes", "do this to your face", "do this to your legs" and so forth. I'd argue that these messages do encourage me to think of myself as a collection of parts that need improvement in some way - it sells. You may be right that only a woman who wasn't secure in herself would buy into that, but it would probably be easier for many women to *be* that secure if it wasn't for all this. It is possible to be affected by that kind of message even if you think for yourself.
(And again, the point of my post wasn't to whine about my flatness, it was to ask what I could do to stop thinking of it as childlike.)
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Don't worry about breast size, any thing more than a mouth full is wasted. There is this girl I know that is almost flat chested but she is 100% girl and super sexy. Attitude wins every time.
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