Being an AA cup turns me off

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Registered: 11-06-2006
Being an AA cup turns me off
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Mon, 11-06-2006 - 7:35pm

I'm a 34AA; as Keira Knightley once said, I don't have breasts, I have pecs.
While the rest of me is 25, my chest seems to be permanently stuck at 11. It's difficult to see a part of your body as sexy when it looks as if it belonged on a child.
The boyfriends I've had have said things like "it doesn't matter, I like you anyway", but I've never been comfortable with having my chest touched or with thinking of it as sexual.

How can I overcome this? Any advice?

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Registered: 06-29-2006
Tue, 02-13-2007 - 11:06am
Look forward to this, darlin.
When time catches up with you, just as it does with us all, you won't suffer from sagging breasts like many with larger attributes do.
once.
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Registered: 07-25-2004
Wed, 02-14-2007 - 8:04am
The VP of a major corp. told me " You are a direct result of everything you've read, seen, and heard ". In other words, if you don't like somethine about yourself, do something about it. One poster said getting inplants will only change your chest size. My suggestion is to make the choice to change the way you see yourself. Every day say out loud, I LOOK GREAT, I FEEL GREAT. A confident woman is hotter that any bodypart. After 20+ years I still can't wait to get home to see my wife, small boobs and all.
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Registered: 12-28-2006
Wed, 02-14-2007 - 3:26pm

There is so much more to being sexy than just one body part. To me I would rather she an AA cup than that same girl with some fake breasts. I would rather have an average looking woman that was confident in her looks than a more beautiful woman that hide under the covers or required the lights to be out, I have had that. I would also day that I would rather have a woman with small breasts that enjoyed me playing with them than a woman that doesn't respond to such stimulation.

I think the best thing you can do is to realize men find women sexy regardless of the body type. Yeah some men may not be interested in A cups but some men only want skinny girls like you and consider a more rounded women as being fat. You just need to have confidence in yourself and find a guy who likes you for who you are and not for being an easy mark.




Edited 2/14/2007 3:47 pm ET by marriedguy2006
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Registered: 11-03-2003
Wed, 02-28-2007 - 5:34pm

Put me in the category of men who like small breasts. Of course likes and dislikes are all around us; that's human nature. But as a guy I really tire of the stereotype that most men only like large breasts. I find small breasts really attractive. And I agree with the person who commented on the nipples. That's the most fun part to play with anyway.

I would never tell a woman what to do with her body. But I find fake breasts to be almost silly looking. They're rarely properly proportional; most of the time there's a reason they can be spotted "a mile away". Give me natural breasts of ANY size over fake breasts - even if they fit someone's opinion of "perfect". Small breasted women are attractive to many men, and I submit that those who are put-off by such peripheral b.s. aren't worthy of your time or attraction anyway.

Good luck - and listen to the women on their posts who implore you to be true to yourself and understand that sexiness is your personal feelings and attitude!!

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