being honest about past hookups
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being honest about past hookups
| Wed, 04-27-2005 - 12:24am |
so i was talking to my new boyfriend, and we pretty much have really good communication. so he was talking to a girl online, and he told me later on that he hooked up with her before he knew me. so i went on to tell him who i have hooked up with, (literally every guy) including one guy i'm still friends with. and he got all weird and said now he's gonna think of them while he's having sex with me. what should i do or say? i already told him that he's so much better than they are, and that i love him and he has nothing to be worried about, but he's still being weird. help?!?

There's a big difference between being "honest", and hitting someone with names, numbers, and details.
So, big deal, he had sex with someone before you.........AND you had sex with someone before him. That's ALL that matters. Neither of you is a virgin...and that's all you should have told him.
He's not being weird, he's reacting badly to information that he never should have been given. He sounds young and immature, and he doesn't understand that "numbers" don't mean anything....numbers don't equate knowledge. Remember that the next time someone asks you about your "past". The answer should be that you're no longer a virgin....nothing more.