being loose??? PLEASE HELP
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being loose??? PLEASE HELP
| Sun, 05-22-2005 - 7:51pm |
I've only been had sex with 2 guys including the guy i'm with now, well when me and him first got together he could barley fit uh...in there? well latly he's been able to easily slide right on in...am i loose???? i thought you could only get loose if you've been with tons of different guys? if i am-what can i do???
also-me and my current BF only have sex like...once a week!!!
thank you SO MUCH!
also-me and my current BF only have sex like...once a week!!!
thank you SO MUCH!

Being loose has nothing to do with how many men you've been with. A woman can sleep with 100 men and still be as tight as she was the first time. Even after childbirth, we go back to the same size.
What you are experiencing is the result of being relaxed and turned on. The more relaxed and comfortable you are, the looser your muscles will be. It's perfectly normal and a sign that you and your boyfriend are doing everything right.
>>it doesnt feel bad for him...does it?<<
Well, if it does, there's something wrong with him! LOL!
It should feel just FINE for him. You are relaxed and well lubricated and everything is working as it should and as nature intended. There is no reason that it should feel bad at all!
You are worried about being loose. Don't be. Being loose is a nasty insult that guys have made up to make some girls feel bad. Without getting into it, it's really only an insult and there isn't really anything like a "loose" vagina. You certainly don't ever get stretched out from having sex. That one is a real tall tale.