being loose??? PLEASE HELP

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Registered: 01-20-2005
being loose??? PLEASE HELP
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Sun, 05-22-2005 - 7:51pm
I've only been had sex with 2 guys including the guy i'm with now, well when me and him first got together he could barley fit uh...in there? well latly he's been able to easily slide right on in...am i loose???? i thought you could only get loose if you've been with tons of different guys? if i am-what can i do???
also-me and my current BF only have sex like...once a week!!!
thank you SO MUCH!
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Registered: 09-25-2004
Sun, 05-22-2005 - 7:54pm
Sex doesn't loosen the vaginal muscles at all. In fact, it helps keep things nice and tight. It could be that you're well-lubed. Your body produces its own natural lubricants. Instead of explaining this to you, go to the website our CL Tish always recommends www.the-clitoris.com I think that's right. You'd better start reading up.
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Registered: 10-13-2004
Sun, 05-22-2005 - 7:56pm

Being loose has nothing to do with how many men you've been with. A woman can sleep with 100 men and still be as tight as she was the first time. Even after childbirth, we go back to the same size.

What you are experiencing is the result of being relaxed and turned on. The more relaxed and comfortable you are, the looser your muscles will be. It's perfectly normal and a sign that you and your boyfriend are doing everything right.

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Registered: 01-20-2005
Sun, 05-22-2005 - 8:06pm
it doesnt feel bad for him...does it?
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Registered: 09-25-2004
Sun, 05-22-2005 - 8:21pm
How should she or anyone else know BUT HIM AND YOU?! You two are the ones having sex with eachother. None of us are. Ask him if you are that worried.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sun, 05-22-2005 - 8:34pm
The others are right about you not being loose, that just doesn't happen but you are more relaxed and aroused and that's why it's easier.

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Sun, 05-22-2005 - 11:23pm

>>it doesnt feel bad for him...does it?<<

Well, if it does, there's something wrong with him! LOL!

It should feel just FINE for him. You are relaxed and well lubricated and everything is working as it should and as nature intended. There is no reason that it should feel bad at all!

You are worried about being loose. Don't be. Being loose is a nasty insult that guys have made up to make some girls feel bad. Without getting into it, it's really only an insult and there isn't really anything like a "loose" vagina. You certainly don't ever get stretched out from having sex. That one is a real tall tale.