Being Naughty

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Registered: 04-19-2007
Being Naughty
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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 4:36pm
I'm not exactly sure if anyone can help, but here it goes...The guy I'm with is being deployed to Iraq soon and I'll be able to spend a few days with him before he leaves(he's training right now for about 3 weeks). I wanted to start write him a naughty letter (although I'm sure he'd prefer a naughty picture instead!)to hide in his things so he'll have a nice surprise when he gets to Iraq, but I'm not sure where to begin. Has anyone ever done something like this for the person they're with? If so, can any pointers on how to begin? Thanks!

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Registered: 05-11-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Tue, 06-05-2007 - 4:42pm

Awww ... sorry to hear that he is going away for a while. My youngest son is there now and his new wife misses him horribly. A letter is probably better than a picture, although you may want to talk to some other military wives or girlfriends about how to go about wording it. Porn of any type can get them into serious trouble there because of the strict laws in many Muslim countries. Definitely NO naked photos although my son keeps telling his wife to send him one in her bikini.

I'll say a prayer for him and you both.

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Registered: 12-17-2006
In reply to: diana0207
Tue, 06-05-2007 - 4:45pm
check out the fantasie board to get some creative ideas...
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Registered: 04-19-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Tue, 06-05-2007 - 4:48pm
Wording was one of my concerns, I wouldn't want to send anything that would in any way jeopardize him or the troops around him. I'm definitely NOT going to send him any type of provocative pictures (mainly because I'm too shy to take any). Thank you, I appreciate you keeping us in your prayers.
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Registered: 04-07-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Tue, 06-05-2007 - 5:26pm
Hi!MY husband is deployed right now to since Spetember 11,2006 and I have taken pictures and put them onto CD's and write names of different songs on them and wrap them up so people think it's music and he keeps them hid away so no one can find.I think he will like them if you get up the courage to send him some.I have not wrote him letters although I did when he was in basic but thats been awhile ago now so I don't know where to tell you to start on that.Hope you have fun doing this if you do it.I would aslo suggest video taping you and him before he leaves to have something for you also.It's fun doing it:-)Get ready for some great amke up sex when his R & R comes around too :-)Hope this helps
~ Emily ~
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Registered: 04-19-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Tue, 06-05-2007 - 5:36pm
Thank you! The CD is a great idea, I'll definitely try that! I know we will definitely be making up for the time he's gone, woohoo!!! Please know that I hope and pray your husband returns home safely!
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Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: diana0207
Tue, 06-05-2007 - 5:36pm
I'm not good at writing, but I agree with checking out some steamy stories over at Fantasies. But also, just write what's in your heart. He'll know it's coming straight from you.



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Registered: 04-07-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Tue, 06-05-2007 - 5:52pm
Thank you I'll keep yall in mine also.If he has a computer and if he gets internet be sure to invest in a webcam for the both of you because that's another good way to "keep in touch" lol whiles he's gone.We have just yesterday started doing that.It's fun and very good outcome if you know what I mean.Also another way for himto see our son and for our son to be able to see him.It feels more like they are back at home when they watch what goes on.Hope this helps.
~ Emily ~
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Registered: 04-19-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Tue, 06-05-2007 - 6:16pm
He has a webcam and I'm in the process of getting one. It'll be good for me, so that I can see him and make sure he's ok. This is the first time he's being deployed since we got together (he had been back from his first tour when we first met), so it'll definitely be an adjustment for me.
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Registered: 04-07-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Tue, 06-05-2007 - 10:01pm
Ok yeah it is reaasuring.Wow well if you ever need someone to talk or anything you can always email me I am always here and it'll go by pretty fast especially with you getting to see him lol.But like I said if you ever need anyone to talk to just email me.Goodluck with everything :-)
~ Emily ~
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Tue, 06-05-2007 - 10:19pm

Welcome to the board young_cougar. I hope you'll visit June Roll Call so we can get to know you a bit better.



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