Being Naughty

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-19-2007
Being Naughty
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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 4:36pm
I'm not exactly sure if anyone can help, but here it goes...The guy I'm with is being deployed to Iraq soon and I'll be able to spend a few days with him before he leaves(he's training right now for about 3 weeks). I wanted to start write him a naughty letter (although I'm sure he'd prefer a naughty picture instead!)to hide in his things so he'll have a nice surprise when he gets to Iraq, but I'm not sure where to begin. Has anyone ever done something like this for the person they're with? If so, can any pointers on how to begin? Thanks!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2005
In reply to: diana0207
Tue, 06-05-2007 - 10:26pm

Hi Diana:


I'm new here but this just happened to be the first post I opened/checked.


I'm the queen of naughty writings.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-19-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Wed, 06-06-2007 - 10:42am
Thanks! I really appreciate it. I will definitely email you; my friends are supportive, but none of them is dating anyone in the military so they can only offer so much advice and support. Thank you!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-19-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Wed, 06-06-2007 - 10:47am
Thank you, thank you! That really helps me out. I was nervous a bit about sending pictures because I don't want to get him in trouble, but I will definitely keep in mind your suggestion about keeping my face out of the picture...I really don't want to meet someone from his unit later on and find out they had seen my pictures! And thank you for keeping him in your thoughts, I truly appreciate it.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-07-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Wed, 06-06-2007 - 11:16am
Your welcome.I know how it gets, sometimes you need someone to talk to who knows exactly what you're going through.Good luck and God bless.
~ Emily ~
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Wed, 06-06-2007 - 11:19am

Sexy photos don't have to show anything that would get him in trouble even if they were seen by others! The CD idea is great ... they definitely have to hide things if they are too graphic. But you could have a good friend take sexy photos (artfully covered in just strategic spots) and I am sure that he would love it! Like I said before, I think the other wives and girlfriends are definitely your best source of info so I am glad some responded!

All of the military wives and girlfriends here have my highest regard. Tell your SOs that they are all in my prayers!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Wed, 06-06-2007 - 1:39pm

There are also a couple of other boards here that you might want to visit ...

Dating a Military Man
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlmildating

Long-Distance Relationships
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rllongdistan

You might be able to pick up some ideas that have worked for others on either of those boards. Many people on the Dating a Military Man board may know about what you can and can't send.



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