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Being on top
| Fri, 12-23-2005 - 10:34am |
I've always read that most women like being on top. It's supposed to do with the position of the penis going in. My wife gets on top and has orgasms in that position and only that position. The only thing I wish she would do is fondle her breasts while on top. I'm wondering how many of you other women do that? I've had other lovers do that and I can assure you that men love that. It's like being up front and personal at a strip club. It's also great to let your breasts dangle close to our face. But when she gets on top, it seems to be all about her getting an orgasm.

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Hey manunit!
I didn't know that "most" women enjoyed that position...interesting to learn. Mrs. Para hasn't been the type to fondle herself at all while she's on top or even in any position. Funny thing is that if she did, she'd get in MY way, LOL, cause I grab her all over all the time in that position anyway, LOL!
I think in that particular position though, we still end up doing a TON of embracing and what not anyway, almost no different from missionary positions. Her on top simply allows her more control and my hands more freedom to enjoy as well--whenever she leans upward that is.
"Strip club," ay? The things I learn from this board, lol. ;-)
C H A R A C T E R
-Gerry-
-Gerry-
Well, her getting to orgasm IS the point of that position. At least for HER, it is. Isn't it?
And actually, this position allows for more direct clitoral stimulation and for moving the way we need to.
But if you would like more of a show, in the process, then ask her to touch herself more. The decision to comply would be up to her though. Some women feel comfortable touching themselves in front of a partner and some don't.
It's likely that she must concentrate totally on what's she's feeling in order to orgasm and doing that would be a distraction. But all you can do is ask.
Be happy that she's happy.
Edited 12/23/2005 4:12 pm ET by katmandoo2001
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