Being on top

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Being on top
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Fri, 12-23-2005 - 10:34am
I've always read that most women like being on top. It's supposed to do with the position of the penis going in. My wife gets on top and has orgasms in that position and only that position. The only thing I wish she would do is fondle her breasts while on top. I'm wondering how many of you other women do that? I've had other lovers do that and I can assure you that men love that. It's like being up front and personal at a strip club. It's also great to let your breasts dangle close to our face. But when she gets on top, it seems to be all about her getting an orgasm.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: manunit
Fri, 12-23-2005 - 10:59am
Yes, I fondle my breasts, stimulate my clit, run my hands over my body, etc. and

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Registered: 07-22-2004
In reply to: manunit
Fri, 12-23-2005 - 12:22pm

Hey manunit!

I didn't know that "most" women enjoyed that position...interesting to learn. Mrs. Para hasn't been the type to fondle herself at all while she's on top or even in any position. Funny thing is that if she did, she'd get in MY way, LOL, cause I grab her all over all the time in that position anyway, LOL!

I think in that particular position though, we still end up doing a TON of embracing and what not anyway, almost no different from missionary positions. Her on top simply allows her more control and my hands more freedom to enjoy as well--whenever she leans upward that is.

"Strip club," ay? The things I learn from this board, lol. ;-)

 

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Registered: 06-04-2004
In reply to: manunit
Fri, 12-23-2005 - 1:46pm
I know I enjoy woman on top! I like to watch her enjoy herself and her breast swinging. My wife does not do this very often. She feels that her size is an issue. I keep telling her that its works for me and she should partake of me. But alas I will keep working on her confidence.
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Registered: 11-17-2005
In reply to: manunit
Fri, 12-23-2005 - 3:17pm
I absolutely love this position, but I love being in control. My DH loves the view and thoroughly enjoys watching me, whether I touch myself or simply sit back and enjoy the ride!

 

 

 

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: manunit
Fri, 12-23-2005 - 4:05pm

Well, her getting to orgasm IS the point of that position. At least for HER, it is. Isn't it?

And actually, this position allows for more direct clitoral stimulation and for moving the way we need to.

But if you would like more of a show, in the process, then ask her to touch herself more. The decision to comply would be up to her though. Some women feel comfortable touching themselves in front of a partner and some don't.

It's likely that she must concentrate totally on what's she's feeling in order to orgasm and doing that would be a distraction. But all you can do is ask.

Be happy that she's happy.




Edited 12/23/2005 4:12 pm ET by katmandoo2001
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In reply to: manunit
Fri, 12-23-2005 - 10:10pm
I love being on top, but I don't get any enjoyment out of fondling my own breasts. It's only recently that I've been able to handle anyone touching or sucking my breasts at all because I found them too sensitive. So if I were to fondle my breasts I would a) be doing it only for my partner's benefit and b) wouldn't be able to grind into him or slide up and down him as much because I wouldn't have my arms to balance on. My partner enjoys it when I'm on top whenever it happens because I make an effort for both of us to enjoy it, but I think my partner enjoys seeing me doing something that I truly enjoy, rather than putting on some fake show for his benefit.

 


 


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Registered: 03-08-2004
In reply to: manunit
Sat, 12-24-2005 - 9:55am
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: manunit
Sat, 12-24-2005 - 3:26pm
Well, just since you asked, no I don't fondle myself when I'm on top.
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Registered: 02-26-2001
In reply to: manunit
Sat, 12-24-2005 - 11:25pm
Is it always the only point of that position? The reason I ask is that I always had a fantasy of being able to lie back with the woman on top with her trying specifically to bring me to orgasm, much like I try to bring her to orgasm in the missionary position. It goes without saying that I never had it happen to me, but I'd be very disappointed to find out that even highly sexual women never get on top with the intention to getting the guy off.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: manunit
Mon, 12-26-2005 - 2:33pm
Well, actually, that is generally why we go for the WOT position, since the angle isn't the best for me.

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