bent

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Registered: 01-05-2005
bent
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Wed, 01-05-2005 - 5:19pm
my boyfriend has a bent penis. it's in the middle at like a 45 degree angle. he wont go to the doctor either. I'm a virgin and he is to and we're waiting for marraige. I am absolutely scared to death that it is going to hurt so bad. and i'm not going to enjoy sex. can someone help me and tell me what to expect. or how to help him fix it. Thanks
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: prettykitty2004
Wed, 01-05-2005 - 6:05pm

Calm down, you're overreacting to a pretty common anomaly of the penis. I've heard that even President Clinton had a pretty obvious bend...according to Monica Lewinsky, that is!

Some men have only a slight bend, while others are greater, like your BF's. Typically though because the penis is somewhat flexible, as is the vagina, there's less discomfort with intercourse, than you might imagine. You need to wait to see if there will even be any difficulty with penetration, etc. rather than jump to conclusions. And if there is, he can talk with a urologist about his options to deal with it. Typically, depending on what's causing the bend, a little snip on one side can solve the problem.

Remember, most of your sensation during intercourse will come from OUTSIDE the vagina, not inside, so you might feel a little more pressure on one side but it probably won't be painful.




Edited 1/5/2005 6:12 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Registered: 10-19-2004
In reply to: prettykitty2004
Wed, 01-05-2005 - 6:27pm
My dear hubby has a fairly obvious bend. He said it's been there as long as he can rememer. Personally I think it adds something to our sex life.
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Registered: 07-03-2003
In reply to: prettykitty2004
Wed, 01-05-2005 - 7:54pm
Don't knock it till you try it! My bf's penis curves to the right...and we have no problems.
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Registered: 10-18-2003
In reply to: prettykitty2004
Wed, 01-05-2005 - 8:07pm

Df has a very obvious inward leftward curve. Doesn't pose any problems except when I'm on top before he's entered me ... and sometimes I have to sit off to the side to get proper stimulation. And sometimes it doesn't wanna line up right and we have to guide it in ... but doesn't change the pleasure factor one bit!


Note: In many porn movies, the larger penised men have VERY obvious inward curves. Perfectly natural and normal.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: prettykitty2004
Wed, 01-05-2005 - 9:41pm
I agree with the others, there's nothing to worry about.

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