the best he's ever had....?

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Registered: 07-26-2005
the best he's ever had....?
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Mon, 04-28-2008 - 12:11am
Ok, I'll start by giving a little background info: my bf and I are in a serious, long-term relationship and are planning to get engaged soon. We have really amazing sex. He's the best I've ever had and I just assumed I was the best he's had, too. Never really thought too much about it.so my bf and I were on the phone earlier, talking about sex and I said "yeah, i know i'm the best you ever had, hahaha" just joking around, being silly. Then, he started laughing and kind of changed the subject. I was like "hold up! Am I the best, or not. You can lie to me, I'd like to think I am at least!!" He laughed and I kept saying, "well?" and the more he laughed, the more flustered I got. He said he was trying to tell me I was the best, but why the heck did he laugh about it?! And he didn't say I was the best until after we got off the phone and I sent him a text. (Yeah, it might be ridiculous, but wouldn't it hurt your feelings if your bf/gf laughed when you asked them if you were the best and then they changed the subject?) It made me wonder if he was being honest when he finally said I was the best or if he was just trying to get me off his back. ugh. What do you think?

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Registered: 02-01-2008
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 3:08pm

I agree with sakura, the poor bastard is not going to win no matter what he says.
Do you really want to know this type of thing? Do you like being asked about sex with your old boyfriends or does it make you a little uncomfortable?
Personally I don't see this as a wrist slitter, if this is the worst thing you two have to deal with in your relationship you will be Sooooo lucky. Learn to pick your battles because if you marry him you are going to have a few.

Good look
-=ad0be=-

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 3:53pm
Welcome back to the board, ad0be. Is this the screen name you will be using from now on?


















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