Best Position for a Small Penis??

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Best Position for a Small Penis??
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Sun, 09-24-2006 - 10:46am

This is related to my previous post... now that I know I am not doing anything wrong! :)

My bf is pretty small and I am afraid I don't feel tight enough for him. (he hasn't said this, but I am worried because my husband was much bigger and he always talked about how tight it was and how good it felt) I want that with my bf now, too...

So, what would be the best postition for us? What would feel best for him? We have done it with him on top, spooning, and from behind while standing (I put my legs close together on this position ~ think I heard somewhere it makes it feel tighter for the guy)

Any suggestions? I am really interested in opinions from guys on this one

Thanks!
Jenn

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Sun, 09-24-2006 - 11:46am

It doesn't matter what your husband always said or how your husband felt, this man is NOT your husband.


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Sun, 09-24-2006 - 11:53am

We are very comfortable with each other, but this is such a sensitive issue (I think) that I just wanted a guy's opinion on what would feel best if you have a smaller penis. He does tell me it feels good and I know he likes it... I want it to be the best for him that it can be and I think a MAN'S opinion is best here.

By the way ~ I have never compared him to my husband except in size and to NO ONE except y'all on here. Again, let me state I am not unhappy at all he is smaller ~ I just don't have a big frame of reference since I have only been with 2 people ever.

I am very serious about wanting advice on this...

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Sun, 09-24-2006 - 11:54am
why did my name change? that is one I had a few years ago...
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Sun, 09-24-2006 - 12:38pm

I have no clue why your named changed.


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Sun, 09-24-2006 - 11:52pm
There were a few positions that seemed to result in a snugger fit which were variations on rear entry. She would lie flat on her stomach and I would either lie on top of her between her legs, supporting my weight on my elbows, or I would kneel with my legs on either side of her and squat between her legs. Both positions are snug, but they do reduce the stroke length, so he has to be careful of that. Hope that gives you some ideas.
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Mon, 09-25-2006 - 12:04am

yes ~ thank you so much! i actually love the first one you mentioned... we haven't done that yet!

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Mon, 09-25-2006 - 1:00am

Only a man who has had intercourse with you could give an "objective" opinion on whether or not you feel "tight" to him, and he'd have to have a small penis, or it wouldn't be a fair comparison.

I don't think you understand how your vagina works. It's not a huge hole that a penis falls into. It's muscles that are ALWAYS tight..until you're aroused, then they relax, and allow a penis to enter. If it's a large penis, they relax more. If it's a small penis, they relax less, so it will be just as "tight" as with any other size penis.

By the way, squeezing your thighs together are not allowing a smaller penis to reach your vagina, so what you're doing is causing him to have intercourse with your thighs.

If you want to know what this guy is "feeling" the only one who can tell you is him. If he keeps coming back for more, then he must be enjoying whatever he's feeling. Also, all of his sexual experience has been with a small penis, and he must know the best way of going about it to maximize his pleasure!

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Mon, 09-25-2006 - 8:39pm
Hi Princess. You ask a very valid question, despite what some of the ladies on here think. I had this issue with my ex husband so we learned to deal with it over the years. He was both short and very thin so the thing that worked best for us both to feel it was me on my back with one leg over his shoulder and the other leg flat on the bed and close to my body. It gave him good access to enter me without the "reach" problems you get with doggy style, but lefting my leg high and keeping the other one down seemed to make it a lot tighter.
And yes, some women ARE "roomier" than others (I know some women don't want to face it but even my gyno admitted it) so it's just something you deal with. From what you mentioned though it sounds like its more an issue on your b/f's side rather than yours. Let me know if that position helps.
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Mon, 09-25-2006 - 10:26pm

Hi j.j.c.

What do YOU consider a small penis? I have a 4 inch penis; yet I have learned to please my wife. For me, I like the woman-on-top position. Once the penis is inside, it will probably not come out. Also, I am able to view, touch, and stimulate my wife.

Kegel exercises help to control/tone the vagina muscles.

Mac

 

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Mon, 09-25-2006 - 11:54pm
Princes, I am a man and I think that you are worrying over nothing. Your boy friend hasn't complained, he is used to getting the most pleasure out of his penis, and he seems to be coming back for more. You should just go "with the flow". I am sure that both of you are getting maximum enjoyment out of your sexual sessions. RELAX.