Best sex positions to have a great org..
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Best sex positions to have a great org..
| Tue, 06-27-2006 - 2:00pm |
Hey what's up? I'm a 24 year old guy and me and my gf have sex i'd say 2 times a week. I use condoms and proud to admit that. I'm just wondering what sex positions work the best for the guy to have full penetration and have a great orgasim. If there are any guys out there please help me out with some responses. Ladies if you wanna share anything and maybe a bf or husband has told you feel free to share thanks!

You want to have full penetration so that you can have a "great" orgasm? Aren't orgasms ALWAYS great? Since it's only the head of the penis that has many nerve endings, or much "feeling".....full penetration really has nothing to do with it....unless it's "mentally".
Depending on your size, and the size of your partner, "full penetration" might be great for you, but it also might be very painful for her. Most women can't stand their cervix's being pounded!
I thing the best penetration can be achieved in the missionary position, with her legs on your shoulders, but again, many women can't do that without being in pain.....Doggie style would be good too, but the same caveat applies.
Hi, Newradical, welcome to the board.
Any position that allows for full penetration of the head of your penis will give you great orgasms, as dakine pointed out. Remember though, there are TWO of you to consider when it comes to great sex. And full penetration may hurt your partner, so that always has to be the first consideration. Her comfort and pleasure must be considered as well.
When a woman draws her legs up, she shortens the vaginal length so any position that would allow the most length with her legs down or lower is your best bet for full penetration. OF course, that position may not be the most ideal for you or her. Just experiment and see what works for both of you. Everyone has their favorites for various reasons.
I'm confused! In your original post, it sounded like you were trying to have a "great" orgasm yourself. Now you're talking about her "motor" never getting turned on. Are you trying to figure out how to give HER a great orgasm?
I have news for you about your supposed "peak". There's no such thing! A man can be sexually active, and ENJOY it thru his whole life, as long as he has the right attitude, the right partner, and good health. There are changes, but sex is good as long as you want it to be. My SO is 71, and can probably run circles around you in the bedroom!
In the meantime, she's 18, and hasn't really reached her sexual maturity yet. She's probably not very experienced, and if she had any previous experience, it was with kids that didn't know anything about women and their sexual responses. From this post, I'm not sure how much you know about women and their sexual responses either.
What are you doing to turn on her "motor"? How much foreplay are you giving her? That's a lot more important to a woman than it is to a man. If she's not properly aroused, her "motor" will NEVER turn on! Women need LOTS of foreplay, particularly women who aren't very experienced. They need clitoral stimulation, oral and manual, to get really aroused and well lubricated. THAT is what gives women orgasms, not intercourse. Most women don't have orgasms from intercourse, but from clitoral stimulation, before and during intercourse.
Check out www.the-clitoris.com to learn about women, about their bodies, and what it takes to be a really great lover. Men who are good lovers get as MUCH pleasure from seeing their partner happy as they do from their own climaxes.
Well, do you help rev her up sexually? Do you engage in plenty of foreplay? Women typically need foreplay to become sexually aroused. Men can be like microwaves and women like crockpots when it comes to arousal, but not always.
Plus, if your GF isn't orgasming regularly during sexual activity, it could make her less likely to be in the mood when you are. Think about it.
As far as your "peak" is concerned, I think you'll find that you'll both have many peaks throughout your life. It's not all downhill from here. LOL! There is no timeline.
Talk with her about having sex a little more often and find out what SHE needs to be sexually satisified, if she isn't, and I think you'll kill two birds with one stone.
She's young, and probably inexperienced. Sexual pleasure and sexual response increase with maturity.
Also, don't confuse "orgasm" with "pleasure". They are two different things, and most women can and do have pleasure with or without orgasms. The object of anything sexual is not to achieve orgasm, but to share intimacy and enjoy each other. Orgasms should be considered a bonus, not a goal. Women who have never had an orgasm will still enjoy sex if they're in a good relationship, and get plenty of pleasure from it.
Well, it's understandable that you would be frustrated if your needs aren't being met at least most of the time. But there are few couples who have matching libidos. The norm is that one has a stronger natural desire.
I have the higher libido in my marriage and I take care of my own needs when necessary. Of course, my DH compromises on frequency since he wants to meet my needs as much as he possibly can. It's rare now that I feel frustrated since he knows that he CAN get in the mood if I let him know that I am.
Talk with your GF again, but let her know that just because SHE isn't in the mood spontaneously as much as you are, that it doesn't mean that she can't GET in the mood and enjoy the intimacy, even if she doesn't orgasm. She can enjoy YOUR pleasure. Asking for once more during the week isn't too much to ask, IMO. Just be reasonable and understanding in your expectations.
But in the meantime, take care of yourself so that you don't become resentful towards her. Ask for what you'd like, but be prepared to compromise & receive less. That's just the reality of relationships.