the best you ever had...

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Registered: 10-20-2006
the best you ever had...
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Fri, 10-20-2006 - 2:27pm
I am planning to get married to a wonderful man next august. We have been sexually active together for about a year and half. Lately, the sex has not been that great :( its just kinda going through the motions... i feel like the passion is lacking and ive tried to liven things up with lingerie, new moves, etc. Nothing seems to be working. All i can think about it how much better the sex used to be when we first started or how good it used to be with my ex. I was with my ex for almost 3 years and never experienced a spell like this. Is it normal? What can i do to get over it?! I love my man, but i just dont know if I can marry him if the sex is going to suck for the rest of my life. I know that is selfish to say... but that is how i am feeling. Please help!
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Registered: 06-29-2006
Fri, 10-20-2006 - 2:45pm
Has your intended noticed a problem, as well?
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Registered: 10-20-2006
Fri, 10-20-2006 - 2:50pm
You know, I am honestly not sure. I wasnt sure of how to ask the question without offending him. Suggestions?
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Registered: 10-18-2006
Fri, 10-20-2006 - 2:57pm

Just like moods and bad hair days - slow spots happen.

 

 

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Registered: 06-29-2006
Fri, 10-20-2006 - 4:06pm
Been around a very long time.
Relationships have their ups and downs.
The two of you need to find a way to broach the subject and work it out.
What I have done, in the past, is approach it as something that I am failing to do and then ask my partner what I can do to please her.
once.