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| Fri, 07-27-2007 - 11:18pm |
Hi everyone,
Not sure if I am the only one affected by this - but are there any good tips for how to have better orgasms? They're nowhere near as good as they used to be, and because I have a terrible time getting there, I always feel really disappointed...
Like tonight, I'm masturbating for *ages* and it's like "Ooooohhh!!! Oooooooooohhhh!!!!! COME ON!!!" and then after about 45 minutes I *finally* get there and it's ......... "Uhh.." "Oh." That's it. About two seconds.
I'd try again, but it normally takes the same amount of time for the same result. :-(
Any suggestions?
Thanks,
Clare.

You've posted the same type question a few times about not being able to O,
"Like tonight, I'm masturbating for *ages* and it's like "Ooooohhh!!! Oooooooooohhhh!!!!! COME ON!!!" and then after about 45 minutes I *finally* get there and it's ......... "Uhh.." "Oh." That's it. About two seconds."
Maybe you built differently. My partner the first one is never that good. Pleasant might be a good way to describe it. It's hard for her to relax. It takes some effort to get going. It will generally take her till the third or fourth orgasm to really feel a wow. That's just the way she works. Been that way for over 20 years. So we just have fun getting there on the days she feels like making an effort. :-D
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