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BF doesnt have sex till completion
| Wed, 06-06-2007 - 10:35pm |
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 10 months now and have only had sex maybe 25 times, and that may be pushing it. And out of the 25 times he maybe came like 7 times. He seems to have a problem with cumming from sex. He looks at porn alotttttttttt. he wakes up and looks at it. sometimes he looks at it while im in the other room. I get mad sometimes because i dont understand y he rather masturbate then have sex with me. We have gone like 2 months without sex. In my previous relationship we had sex up to 3-4 daily. He sometimes tries to blame it on me, but i dont think im the problem really. What could be his deal?

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With all due respect, Nenuphar, CO-CL of Secrets of Married Sex
As for whether or not you are kidding about the vacuum, I neither know nor care, as that is between you and Ken and is not any of my concern.
Ha ha. I see you're learning Steve. But just between you and me I think you need more time in the cage if only to help you relax a bit. I would love to have a private discussion with your better half.
Have a nice weekend.
Bea
Thank you, Nenuphar, for your message and kind words for Steve. I wlecome what you have said, and like that he has contributed in a positive fashion. It's just that he comes across to me as sometimes talking down to us.
I will look at your site when I return from a w/e jaunt out of town.
Until then, regards,
Bea
The dynamics of my chastity play with DW are very different than yours with your BF, and I doubt would yield the results that you are looking for. I do wonder, however, whether your BF would benefit from my having a private discussion with him regarding the beneficial effect of a good flogging on a woman's attitude.
Edited 6/9/2007 2:56 pm ET by bostonsteve
I think you will find that I respond to people here pretty much as I find them. When you blow in here with a condescending attitude and a snippy tone, you should not be at all surprised to find that I respond in kind.
Edited 6/9/2007 2:51 pm ET by bostonsteve
We do not see eye to eye on everything, but frankly I much prefer his intelligence and willingness to exchange with me and others to a yes man or woman, who only agrees to be agreeable and liked.
I would agree, Nenu, that it is by far a much better experience to exchange intelligent thoughts rather than a constant stream of yes...yes...yes...
I so welcome that alternative view, a contrast in thinking, to compliment a person's individuality.
How boring it would be for me....to only encounter my own opinions... restated.
Mrs P
*It's just that he comes across to me as sometimes talking down to us.*
I can recall several exchanges we've had where I have felt very strongly opposed to an opinion of yours.
Mrs P
Good Morning Steve!
I just wanted to chime in here and say that I have also found you to be both very respectful and very well respected around the village.
Agreeing that sexual interest in any particular activity should be shared within a relationship, dominance certainly would only be welcome for those that enjoy the kink as you have suggested. I know very few men who would tolerate being caged at all, and shutter at the thought of encouraging someone to do anything against the will of another person. It would appear clear to me that any person who cannot respect their partner, the person they claim to love, shows little sign of being able to respect others.
Having read most of your postings on iVillage, I have learned many things. I especially admire the respect that you have for your DW and the way that you encourage others to build their relationships. I certainly look forward to continued exchanges with you on the boards, and would only encourage you to keep being yourself :-)
my partner in the siggy exchange
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