Bf has to go to bathrm in middle of sex
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Bf has to go to bathrm in middle of sex
| Mon, 04-25-2005 - 11:38am |
I have a new bf who is a great lover and is very well endowed but he always does one thing which grosses me out, even though it's of course quite natural. He has tremendous staying power and if I want him to he will stay hard for 45 minutes or pretty much however long I want. However, after several minutes of intercourse he often has to pee extremely badly -- even if he has recently gone. It is just wierd because he will go and go and go -- we can have a fairly long conversation while he's like, psssssssssssssssst, in fact it sometimes takes so long that I'm considerably dried out. Then when he comes back to bed it's, like, uhhh, dripping and that's so gross, although he will usually just put it right back inside me. Any of you have bfs who have the urge to go during sex, and if so, how do they get everything drip-free quickly?

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Edited 4/25/2005 11:44 am ET ET by katmandoo2001
Sorry, what's UTI? I
think he shakes it off, it just seems like there's more in there.
I've never had a guy have to go in the middle of sex before. That being said, I've never had such an intense lover before and this filled-up feeling is NOT something I'm going to let go of!
Drinking a lot of water does make one urinate more often, but in the middle of sex, the urethra is closed off by blood engorgement in the pelvis. So, unless he's got a sensitive or small bladder, I'm not sure why he'd need to do that.
My DH has never stopped in the middle of a long session, gotten up to pee and then come back to bed, so I'm not sure how common that is.
Ask him to empty his bladder before coming to bed but if the dripping grosses you out, just ask him to shake it until there's no more dripping and not to penetrate you until.
Edited 4/25/2005 3:11 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
Don't drink anything for two hours? How often is a lovemaking session planned out like that. I know I get UTI's all the time and you don't pee a lot. You always feel like you gotta go and then nothing comes out but a drop. And they usually hurt really bad to where he wouldn't quite be in the mood for sex. I would definitely have him ask his doctor. All the water he drinks may very well have something to do with it but I've never heard of that. Of course I've never had a man go for more than a few minutes.
Kim
Hi gimmegoodadvice:
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