bf interested in playboy magazine
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| Tue, 12-21-2004 - 5:31am |
I and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. We have a good relation with each others but we have yet to came to the stage of having sex.
Recently my boyfriend told me that he is very much interested in looking at naked woman.First I thought he is just making fun. Later on when he show to me a few playboy magazine then I started to believe what he said. This has been happening even before he meet me.
He told me, he will masturbate whenever he look at the nude women in the magazine. Recently he started to show to me the playboy magazine and masturbate in front of me.
I understand that it is normal for a man to get aroused by looking at naked woman and masturbate. But I don't want by BF to masturbate frequently. I do not know how to stop him from looking at the playboy magazine and later on masturbate. He told me that he can't stop from looking the magazine.
What shall I tell or do to him in this matter?

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And that is exactly why masturbation is a private issue in our home. Not totally off-limits, we each know the other does it - with DH's rotating shifts, sometimes the urge hits and we're alone, or he wants to relax before bed in the am and I'm at work - but we don't discuss it or question the other. I don't really want to know what he thinks about, although he voluntarily said it's me, (smart guy, lol).
I think for most men (and correct me if I'm wrong Westie), masturbation has about as much to do with sex as watching a VH1 video has to do with being out in a real club. There is no real connection, most men would much rather prefer being with their partner but use masturbation as a relaxation tool. I read something recently about male masturbation and the article said it's like having this really cool Tonka truck attached to you, sometimes you just gotta play with it!
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