BF licking his cum - is this the norm?

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Registered: 11-28-2006
BF licking his cum - is this the norm?
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Tue, 11-28-2006 - 7:48am

hey everyone:

although it's not a problem as such, don't get me wrong, far from it..!

the matter in being is that he likes to lick me out even when there's old cum inside me from between 10 mins to a few hours before, or even, most importantly the night before (altho' i do try to clean it out afterwards, but it's not easy cleaning cum unless i have a bath which is impractical when you're tired, or just wanting a quickie). initially, i found it rather embarrassing to have him going down on me when i know the cum's all stale and smelly, but he says he doesnt mind as its not that bad tasting/smelling as he want to continue loving me as he knows that i may need us to carry on again; he wants to ensure my vagina's all clean and ready for his love again. usually he licks his cum after his orgasm as to ensure that my feelings/needs aren't neglected as we both know (and we're comfortably happy by this) that i can't always cum regulary (usually by penetration when it happens) but to still pleasure me in what ever ways he can. i found this very kind and supportive of him to be feeling like that for me.. as our has relationship developed over the last few months, i have gotten used to this and not bothered by it at all now. all he's concerned about is my happiness and his needs are secondary to mine. so i m not complaining at all - i'm just delirously happy that i'm involved in such a meaningful and loving relationship with such a wonderful guy.

this is an experience i've never encountered before with any man, and i'm wondering if other girls have great men like him, coz i know it aint common practice for men to be so unusually selfless and giving. what do you do lot think.. would be interested in any guys opinions too...
many thanks in advancexxx
xxdxx

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Tue, 11-28-2006 - 6:00pm

There is no normal or abnormal when it comes to sex.


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Wed, 11-29-2006 - 7:18am
hi there: i really appreciate the comment about both partners enjoying the same thing then it's normal part of the course for them.. that's so true of us, coz what i do for him seems so natural, and vice-versa.
the cum aspect has been normalised in our sex life where i don't mind it at all being there from the night before. well, i do try to go and clean up afterwards for hygiene's sake, but not all of it comes out. sometimes, i wonder whether i should 'douche' myself there as some of it seems to want to STAY in,even after a shower! the morning breath can be a problem as we both like to drink a lil', so the after-effects can be horrible, and yes, i do the same as you, and brush my teeth before we intiate sex again.
xxthanks again for your comments issytishxxxd
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Wed, 11-29-2006 - 7:43am

Don't douche!


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Wed, 11-29-2006 - 8:07am
i didn't realise this, as i thought that after-sex hygiene is important to maintain as i would imagine that the bacteria in cum isn't what our genitals are naturally used to, hence the smell factor. sometimes i use a Tea Tree wipe (oil and water mix on cotton pad, homemade)to clean myself when i'm on my period or when we're having a w/ender of hot sex sessions (yes, bf objects slightly but has now gotten used to it in the end!). i know that this isn't harming my vagina as this was prescribed to me by my herbalist to treat Thrush/Candida as Tea Tree is a natural antiseptic and and has strong anti-viral properties to it. the leftover cum does give off a strong 'fishy' smell and this is off-putting to me sometimes, so i try to be clean it the best i can. what do you do to clean yourself? to me the bath is the best way, rather than a shower...
cheersxxxd
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Wed, 11-29-2006 - 11:06am
My dog Fido, does the same thing when any time he gets the chance.
What breed is your boyfriend?
Just kidding. I don't think most guys would be receptive to this sort of behavior, but have heard of some enjoying "cream pies".
It's not really my "cup of tea".
once.
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Wed, 11-29-2006 - 12:04pm
well shortier, if you were in his shoes (yes it's a bit sticky down there!!) and madly in love with me, you'd do anything to keep a girl sweet, wouldn't you?!
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Wed, 11-29-2006 - 12:37pm
You are absolutely right!
However, I am an "equal opportunity" companion, and therefore, would expect the very same treatment from my loved one.
once.
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Wed, 11-29-2006 - 1:08pm

ahem.. i am one of those lucky few who has known the magical powers of cum (yes, it's magical) that i can't help but keep him on 'on tap' when i need it again: tis the best taste ever, IMO! despite that i'm a foodie, all things tasty and flavoursome makes me want it again, and again!!

ps. to all those women out there, try it with someone else if you don't like your current partner's, you don't know what you're missing. be of an open-mind. it makes sex hotter and hotter!