BF took naked pic of me sleeping!

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Registered: 05-01-2008
BF took naked pic of me sleeping!
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Wed, 05-28-2008 - 9:04pm
Okay, I don't know if I should be disturbed by this or if I need to lighten up.

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Registered: 01-24-2007
Wed, 05-28-2008 - 9:39pm
Are you angry or not?
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Registered: 08-12-2002
Wed, 05-28-2008 - 9:48pm

Well I'm very open-minded when it comes to these things, so I'd probably find it funny if my BF did that to me.


What matters is how YOU feel about it.

 


 


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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 05-28-2008 - 10:58pm

Welcome to the board, kwestm.

At this point, I totally trust my DH, so I wouldn't give that type of picture a second thought. If I were in your shoes, I don't think I would be worried about that particular picture, but I would definitely want to have a talk with BF to make sure he would never do anything with that sort of picture (like put it on the net).





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Registered: 03-03-2008
Thu, 05-29-2008 - 12:09am

That was a lousy thing he did.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-24-2008
Thu, 05-29-2008 - 12:39am
If you are distressed or offended by what he did you need to make it clear to him that he is not to do that to you again.
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Registered: 08-04-2004
Thu, 05-29-2008 - 12:21pm
It
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Registered: 05-11-2008
Thu, 05-29-2008 - 7:32pm

I agree with everyone: It's about how YOU feel. If you are uncomfortable telling him that you don't like it try dressing up and asking if he would like to trade that pic for a better one. (That's what I did Lol!)

 

Tricia

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Registered: 03-27-2008
Fri, 05-30-2008 - 7:42pm
Hmmm...I think before I can give any advice I'm going to have to see the picture. :)
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Registered: 05-14-2008
Sat, 05-31-2008 - 7:58am
If that is
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Registered: 04-13-2007
Sat, 05-31-2008 - 11:23am
Different folks, different strokes: I personally wouldn't be bothered at all by it. My bf has taken hundreds of pics of me, ranging from demure and dignified to totally pornographic. I have no idea where he keeps them and I haven't seen all of them but it's just not something I'm worried about. Picture of you sleeping, in your undies? ... hard to see what's so bad about that. He probably just really likes ya!

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