b/f want first time ffm 3some

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Registered: 05-03-2005
b/f want first time ffm 3some
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Wed, 05-11-2005 - 12:20pm

Hi all,
My b/f has been asking for a first time ffm 3some. Although I am a straight woman, I am willing to try this to fulfill his fantasy. The problem is I'm not quite sure how I would go about finding a woman who would be willing to join me.

Any ideas???????

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Registered: 07-22-2004
Wed, 05-11-2005 - 4:41pm

Here's a couple of articles by IVillage that I thought would be interesting read before you chose one way or another:

http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,sbv4,00.html

http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/experts/carnal/qas/0,,638356_586348,00.html

I notice you pointed out being straight, which also makes me think you're fonder of monogamy than not. I'm still not convinced this is something to experiment with and then if you don't like it you can just pretend it never happened.

Once it happens, you DON'T forget it, and things STAY different forever after that. For some, its worth it, for most, especially when monogamy is so key, its simply not.

That said, only idea I've ever read, that being from another board at that, was to think of the benefits to introducing the idea .

Good luck to ya.

 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2005
Wed, 05-11-2005 - 6:58pm
Cheers for your reply.... Ill take a look.
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Registered: 05-27-2004
Wed, 05-11-2005 - 11:57pm
If it was my b/f, I'd tell him that as long as I was in this relationship, that would remain his fantasy, never a reality. However, if you're willing, then since it's his idea, he should be the one to find a willing woman, and set it up!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 05-12-2005 - 1:12am
Seconds on that answer. After all, it is HIS fantasy but you should have veto power. You may have different tastes in types.