Big guy, small lady

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Registered: 06-25-2006
Big guy, small lady
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Sun, 06-25-2006 - 12:55pm
I've recently become intimate with a wonderful man, but we have size differences. He is 6 feet tall and is about a size 3X. I'm 5 feet tall with a few extra pounds. While trying intercourse, it can get uncomfortable. We tried me on top and I can't raise up or move enough and his stomach can interfere with the missionary position, doggie-style was also a bit disappointing. Any suggestions or advice from others would be appreciated.
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Registered: 07-26-2005
Mon, 06-26-2006 - 1:57am

When you're on top, you don't NEED to raise up. Woman on top isn't about thrusting and up and down......it's about squatting on your knees, not your heels, sitting up straight and then just rotating your hips and "grinding" into him. That way, you're rubbing your clitoris against him, and if you get it right, you'll even get some "g" spot action. Stomachs don't get in the way if you do that.

Other than that, there are lots of positions, depending on how agile you both are. Check out the "kama sutra" on any search engine. Some of the entries are even illustrated.

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Registered: 08-02-2006
Wed, 08-02-2006 - 4:37pm
I have about the same size ratio as you do....he's 6'5" about 300lbs, I'm 5'6" about 140. I was very concerned before we became intimate about how things were going to work. Honestly the missionary postion with my legs up over his shoulders works really well for us. His belly ends up against my thighs. Now due to the difference in our sizes I'm pretty well buried in his chest but that is fine with me. Woman on top is actually a bit difficult for me, something he doesnt quite understand, because if my legs were shorter I would not be able to straddle him. Sometimes when I'm on top though I actually get off of my knees and sit up straight and put my feet flat on the bed. You can either rock back and forth this way or pump up and down. Also, reverse cowgirl works well....just turn your back to him while you are on top. This way there are no bumping bellies and if you lean forward from this position and hold his ankles while you ride him he will go nuts! Good luck.....and remember that you will find something that works for the two of you.