Big guy, tight girl

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Big guy, tight girl
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Wed, 08-02-2006 - 9:43pm
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Edited 8/13/2006 10:02 pm ET by curiousgirl104
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Registered: 07-26-2005
Thu, 08-03-2006 - 12:49am

Try using additional lubrication. You may THINK you're well lubricated, but it might not be enough. That would be the "simple solution". If that doesn't help.....then maybe it's not the right kind of foreplay. A properly relaxed vagina can accomodate a "large" man.....after all it can open enough to allow a full term baby pass thru it, and I'm sure he's not THAT large.

If all else fails, see your gyno......you might have some kind of problem.....vaginsimus is one that comes to mind. It's not supposed to hurt ever, but usually in a new relationship the "nervousness" comes into play....but you say this isn't a new relationship. Just the fact that it hurts every time can be causing you not to relax, and not lubricate enough. If you fear the pain that you expect, fear can be causing it to happen.