The Big Surprise

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Registered: 11-05-2004
The Big Surprise
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Tue, 07-12-2005 - 12:29pm

Ok so my gf who im absolutely madly inlove with is coming home next week after being in a neighbouring country for a few weeks. I want to do something for her to just knock her off her feet when she comes back. We both are expecting to have great/wild sex, and i just want to make it extra special for her.

The bonus thing is, she should be coming home towards night time (though since its summer, sun should just be going down or have just come down).

Things I would like some help with are, how to turn her on immediately, or very quickly, things to say, how to basically knock her off her feet. thanks alot guys, i know your great at these kinda things, it should be interesting to see your opinions on this.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 07-12-2005 - 1:15pm

She might not need anything special said or done.


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Registered: 11-05-2004
Tue, 07-12-2005 - 1:27pm
yes we live together. we live in a flat, 2 floors up, and she will buzz our flat when she returns to i can go down and pick up her bags since they quite heavy (women *rolls eyes* lol :p), so that will be really the first "meet". Now, i do tease her quite a bit, so half ignoring her and not kissing her immediately could be an option as ive done it in the past lol but i dunno, what do you guys think?
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Registered: 06-27-2005
Tue, 07-12-2005 - 1:35pm
By BF suprised me last year on my birthday. He told me he was going to do something we had never done before and asked me to take a warm soapy shower.
Afterwards he had me lay on my stomach and arch my back in the air while he performed anal-lingus on me for about 10 minutes.. I felt like I was in heaven. It was a feeling I can`t describe.
It did not take long for me to climax a few times in this position.
Try it and I think you wil have a happy GF. Good Luck!
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Registered: 11-05-2004
Wed, 07-13-2005 - 12:09pm

thats an interesting idea, we do want to try that sometime in the future, thanks.

Does anyone else have any ideas?

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Registered: 05-11-2005
Wed, 07-13-2005 - 1:21pm

If I'd been gone a long time, I would be like Tish and be so happy to see him.

Sassy.......
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Wed, 07-13-2005 - 2:48pm

I have to agree 100% with shortnsassy on this call,
have a bath drawn for her using her favorite bath oils
(or whatever her preference), have your place filled
with a million scented votive candles too. In the bathroom,
have gift wrapped some new lingerie. A single stem red
rose next to it. Purchase some unscented body massage oil
(make sure its unscented due to the bath oils and candles).
Soft music (music of choice) is a must. If you know she's
been on the road and might be hungry, serve up some cheese
and crackers along with a bottle of chilled wine. Something
I did for a lost love of mine, is during the body massage,
instead of oil, use a rabbit fur massage glove!

Remember, and I know I'm going to get a LOT of backlash on this
next comment, but here goes. You don't need to do something out
of the extraordinary for her return, but DO SOMETHING, anything
except ignore her.

swak
greggy

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Registered: 05-23-2005
Wed, 07-13-2005 - 3:40pm
Don't ignore her... lol I'm in a LDR and I HATE it when he ignores me when we first see each other!! Drives me nuts. But when I see him I don't need him to do anything special for me... I jump him asap anyway
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Registered: 05-11-2005
Wed, 07-13-2005 - 4:35pm

Gregg,


That's excellent suggestions..


Sassy.......
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Registered: 03-23-2005
Wed, 07-13-2005 - 9:36pm

I am very much a NO-FRILLS kind of person, and it takes very little to please me. I hate having a "fuss" made when I just want to cut to the chase.

How about a quick hello on the stoop, grab her bags and go up to your flat. Once inside, turn and just hold her as tightly as you can. If her hair is up in a clip or ponytail, take it down, and bury you face in her neck-take in her smell, her perfumer, etc.

Just hold her as tightly and long as you can while you run your hands up and down her back-all over. Touch her and hold her as if you can't get close enough. The kissing and nibbling should be in full swing by then, and you'll know what to do from there, I presume! LOL

As far as added nuances, try to have the candles and music already in place. Also have some fruit, cheese, crackers, etc. ready (filling, tasty, and easy to nibble over the course of an evening).

After your first go-round, shower, gift her with some new lingerie, etc., and get ready for slumber or round 2.

Best wishes.

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Registered: 11-05-2004
Thu, 07-14-2005 - 8:09am
hmm thanks alot for the suggestions there. Unfortunately, money is quite tight right now so the wine, clothes, etc may get cut down, but yes, i do have a good idea as to what im going to do. Thanks alot for the help guys :D