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Bigger isn't always Better
| Fri, 02-16-2007 - 9:10am |
Anyone out there have issues with your man being too big. I am fairly well endowed, but its not always that enjoyable in bed. It hurts my wife to the point it turns her off to have intercourse. Anyone have the same issues, or know how to correct them? Thanks....

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For me the best position is missionary because I can better control the depth, angle and and speed. I never ask for the doggie position because this allows deep penetration. But when DH askes it's usually after I've O'ed and he's willing to keep it slow and shallow. We rarely do any positions that are not face to face because of his size and my inability to fully handle him.
Danidi,
From what I hear, you suggest missionary with her on top is the best way. At any point is full insertion ever become possible? As with most guys I would assume, I would like to give it all to her. Also, I see 'DH' on here alot and am fairly new, what does it mean?
Thank You
DH is "dear husband".....DW, "dear wife", etc.
Why is it important to you to "give it all" to her? If that causes pain for her.....it causes pain. Her cervix isn't going to move!
99% of the nerve endings in your penis are in the head. How will it feel any better to you if the head goes deeper? If not being able to give it all to her is the worst problem you ever encounter in your sex life, thank your lucky stars!
PS: If she's in a position where her pelvis is higher than her torso, there's a possibility that her uterus and cervix will shift upwards slightly, and it might work for you. Try missionary, but with her legs over your shoulders. It will probably also cause "queefs".....but that's no big deal.
Edited 2/17/2007 10:49 am ET by sakura2006
Sakura,
Thanks for your ideas. Its not that important that I give it all to her, I am more concerned about not hurting her. We will give your ideas a shot.. ;)
I've never been able to take all of him without great yelps and cries of pain. Not a sexy feeling for me nor does it sound arousing to my DH. Unfortunately, when too deep penetration occures, it usually ends our LM'ing encounter because then I end up with painfull spasms that doesn't allow for comfortable IC at all, at least until the next day or two.
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