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Bigger isn't always Better
| Fri, 02-16-2007 - 9:10am |
Anyone out there have issues with your man being too big. I am fairly well endowed, but its not always that enjoyable in bed. It hurts my wife to the point it turns her off to have intercourse. Anyone have the same issues, or know how to correct them? Thanks....

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What we do seems to work. I'm very small, my bf is very well endowed and likes to draw it all the way out to the tip then drive it all the way in, with just about every stroke (i often LOL because his ass literally moves so far up and down!).
We've found that "modified missionary," with my bum up on a pillow and my legs up over his shoulders, works very well. I tilt my pelvis up so that my pubic reason is just about vertical. It goes in extremely, extremely deep that way but for some reason it clears all the stuff that hurts. Early on in our relationship we had lots of bad experiences with hitting the wrong thing in there, and that was not okay. But we're good now.
As the previous poster said, the one thing this position gives rise to is really huge "queefs" ... the way he does it it seems to pump it up with quite a bit of air sometimes. It's so hilarious, we'll be lying there in the afterglow and with no warning it just lets go ... if he's cum a lot inside me it sounds a bit like the La Brea Tar Pits and is a fairly shockingly disgusting sound, but there's nothing to be done about it and it's hardly a problem given that everything else works out great.
This is a fairly common problem, actually. There are these on the market:
http://pipedreamproducts.com/showdetail.php?Full_Number=SB106-00
These would kind of make it feel like you were all the way inside her, but keep from causing her pain.
~Suki
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