Bigger spurts = more intense orgasm?

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Bigger spurts = more intense orgasm?
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Wed, 10-27-2004 - 12:56pm
Last night me and my bf had an amazing sex session. He went way longer than he normally does and made me cum several times. I finished him with my hand and his cs was absolutely huge. He said his orgasm was way more intense than normal. I asked him if he always cums a lot stronger when his orgasm is intense and he said yes, pretty much so. I never realized there was any connection.

What do you guys think? Also, sny input from the ladies? Have you seen this to be true with your boyfriends or husbands?

Paige

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Wed, 10-27-2004 - 1:49pm
For me, there is a direct connection to intensity of O and amount of ejaculate.

I think it is more the opposite however. When a man is storing those little guys up for many days there is more to be released. Also, day by day the man gets more sensitive and hornier and hornier. If you wait too long you could liken his state to an overinflated balloon or a gun with a hair tigger. We also have an extra proud feeling when there is a lot and it is visible, which adds to the sensation.

This begs the age old question that confronts men: Is it better to have frequent sex that is very, very good or infrequent sex that is outstanding? The answer, of course is, we'll take whatever we can (faithfully) get!

Tom

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Wed, 10-27-2004 - 3:56pm
I think that it's a combination of a few things:

First, a big orgasm usually means that the muscle contractions are stronger and as a consequence, you cum harder and squirt further. In the same way that women can increase the power of their orgasm by increasing the strength of their PC muscles, guys can do the same thing. When I was in my twenties and heard that I tried the exercises for several weeks and I can definitely say that stronger PC muscles (or whatever the guys equivalent is) make for a stronger orgasm and increased distance when ejeculating.

Secondly, if the foreplay and buildup to your orgasm has taken a long time there is more ejeculate because your body has had time to produce more. I read once that if a guy wants to increase the volume of his ejeculate the best way is to masturbate close to orgasm about an hour before having sex. That means that your body has spent more time producing the volume of ejeculate.

Thirdly, I think most people will have noticed that if you've had a long foreplay session you are so turned on and aroused that the orgasm, when it finally happens, is much bigger. Stronger muscle contrations too. Usually, delaying your orgasm as long as possible makes it bigger.

I've also noticed that if you don't have sex as often the orgasms are bigger too. I guess part of it is that you are just really ready to have a good orgasm. I'm convinced some of the increased sensation is because the semen is much thicker and the extra effort to push it out increases the sensation too.

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Registered: 08-11-2004
Fri, 10-29-2004 - 9:49am
Hi paige,

Check this post I started a while back about big spurts. My so LOVES

to see big spurts. For me they are usually when I've gone several days

with out sex or JO. Alao, If you "approach the edge" of cumming

several times then stop it will really build up. sorta like delayed

graification. The orgasms are much more intense for me at least. I

remember

one time my SO brought me to the edge like 4 or 5 times while giving me

a BJ and I haden't had sex for like 2 weeks cuase I was sick. She was

also trying this new "trick" she learned in Cosmo, I call it the "taint

maneuver" where she rubs and massages the taint area. And let me tell

you the explosion was amazing there was spurt after spurt and it flew

about 6 feet hitting me in the face and the headboard too and the

intensity was outa this world!!

just my 2cents

mike

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Registered: 05-15-2004
Fri, 10-29-2004 - 11:03am
hey ss,

Thanks, I went back and found that thread you were talking about. It was pretty interesting how the guys seem to love to spurt big and the gals don't care much about it.

I'm one of those gals that likes to see it really shoot out... not sure why, maybe it's because I've always been visually turned on when it comes to sex. I like watching porn movies, etc.

When I was dating my first bf we began having intercourse before BJ's or any of that, so it was a long time before I ever actually saw his cs. He would always finish inside me and he was waering a condom anyway. One night we were "parking" and he didn't have any condoms with him so he asked if I would give him a handjob. I did it right there in the front seat of his car, and when he came he shot it all over the steering wheel and on the dashboard! We both laughed, but I loved the visual -- I guess it was just such a spectacular finish and it made me feel like I turned him on so much to make him do that.

*lol* -- never made a guy shoot himself in the face, though. that would be a sight. Next time guess you should have her point it in another direction. *lol*

Paige

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Fri, 10-29-2004 - 2:54pm
Yes, my So and past gf's all seem to love the big spurts. They felt "the bigger the spurts" "the hotter and better job they did" anyway theres all kinds of theories on how to ahceive this. PM me if ya want.