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bikini hair- embarrassing question?
| Tue, 01-24-2006 - 6:52pm |
I have a weird question. A couple months ago, before I had Brazilian laser surgery done on my bikini line (awesome, by the way!!), I was seeing a guy for a couple weeks and we were often intimate. I shaved my bikini line well, but was pretty "bushy" down there and a bit naive about how most girls maintain that area. He commented one night while giving a hand job, "Have you considered trimming?", and I was embarrassed cause I hadn't ever thought of it. We aren't seeing each other any more, do you think this was a major turn-off? I know some guys are really picky. Any thoughts would be appreciated!

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Maybe it was a turnoff to HIM, maybe not...but he's only one guy. Some guys are pickier about that than others but ultimately, it's YOUR body hair and YOUR choice to shave it off, trim it or braid it into a ponytail, if you choose.
Any guy who's in love with you will accept your pubic hair however you choose to wear it. And if you decide to trim it to please a lover, than that's your choice as well. Don't worry about it.
Wait a minute, you want to know what this guy( and others) maybe thought, and you've ALREADY had Brazilian laser surgery done on your bikini line. It sounds like you have already made your decision.
BTW, if he commented during a "hand job", this has nothing to do with the hair on your bikini line, which is far away from your labial lips. I love my wife's pubic hair and would not want her to shave, but we do digital a lot and it does make her more comfortable if we trim the area right around her labial lips with electric clippers about once a month.
taoist
Brazilian, ey? Hmmm... (squinting a curious eye)
What makes Brazilian more awesome than the other methods (which I know nothing about as well, other than hearing about something wax-related a couple times)?
Just to be a little shallow here, I prefer hair down there on a woman, rather than shaven. And completely bare? I don't know, it reminds me of, like, a Martian or something. Just seems unnatural to me. But, like I said, that's just my personal preference.
Because when it comes 'down' to it, it's what YOU like down there that matters. I'm more turned-on by a woman who's confident and comfortable with herself, regardless, than a woman with the nicest 'hairstyle.'
I think it's all in the 'tude!
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I'd like to hear more about this laser hair removal...
I shave down there, but my skin is so sensitive, I always end up with shave bumps, and I'm worried it might be mistaken for something like Herpes. Which, needless to say, would not be good.
I think Kat summed it up pretty well. Obviously THIS guy preferred to have his women trim, but every guy is different.
>>I was embarrassed cause I hadn't ever thought of it. <<
Nah, no reason to be embarrassed about it. It's just hair. It's no more embarrassing and not much different than having a guy say "Hey, have you considered wearing your hair (head hair that is!) in this style?"
Personally I like completely bare in theory only. The skin-on-skin contact does feel better and I love the view especially during oral sex. But in practice the stubble comes back in in a matter of hours, making the maintenance terribly time consuming. From a practical point of view trimmed short and shaved along the edges of the labia is much easier and still very sexy in my opinion.
Do what you want. I'd think twice about getting permanent laser hair removal all over if I were you though.
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