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| Wed, 02-14-2007 - 11:42am |
ok so i have only had sex with two people. my ex of 4 years and now my new boyfriend of 2 months. my new boyfriend is AMAZING in bed. but he loves to bite which i dont mind at all. but hes told me tons of times he wishes i would bite him back and scratch him. i want to but i am really shy cause im not used to this kind of sex at all. its the complete opposite of my last boyfriend. i want to bite him so that i can please him but i was wondering if there is a proper way to bite cause i dont want to hurt him? :( any help on this subject would be really great. im going to see him tonight for vday. he lives an hour away so i dont see him as much as alot of people see their significant others. so i want to try to please him alot tonight on vday. :)

Well, if he's biting you, then take the lead from him. As far as not hurting him, whatever you're biting, you're the one who knows how much pressure you're putting on your teeth, so don't bite hard. Think of it as "nibbling" and use your lips as well as your teeth. As far as scratching, you don't have to draw blood, but if you're in the missionary position, for instance, then it's very easy to put your hands on his back, and scratch or at least rub with your fingertips.
Forget the "shyness"......if you're not willing to try something new (particularly when he's ASKED you to) then you'll never learn anything new. There's no room for shyness in a bed.
Okay so I love biting, I am definitely a biter, and if your bf is asking you to do it, I think he’s ready for the pain (in case you’re worried about biting too hard) He’ll let you know if it’s too painful, but he might be going for the whole “pleasure spiked with pain” kind of thing in which case, he might *not* tell you about the painfulness until its over. But don’t feel bad about causing “too much” pain because if he wants you to stop during the act, he will ask you to. Chances are, he’s going to love it the harder you deliver it, even if he’s sore from it afterwards. I had one bf who went crazy over it, the nails (I was never much of a scratcher – I prefer leaving deep half moon marks from the digging in) and the biting, but I never drew blood and never left marks that didn’t go away after an hour or so – okay, maybe a few that stayed for a couple of days… :-)
I found that less sensitive but more "meaty" areas (shoulders) are great because they can take the harder bite and still feel pleasure from it. Places like the collar bone or the hip bone, because they have such a thin layer of skin and not much "meat" protecting them, need to be nibbled - bites will break the skin and you dont want to stop your fun by having to dab with a napkin to stop the blood flow. And the more sensitive areas (neck, inner thigh) just hurt when bitten so I'd suggest using tongue and lips there. It is something to work on in stages – start out soft to see how he reacts, but keep in mind that he probably wants it a bit harder than just nibbles. It might be strange at first, but you might find eventually you like it as much as he does! Have fun with it!
A review of your profile leads me to conclude you should know something about keeping your mouth clean. That's the first step before biting someone so your "good to go" there.
A technique similar to one I have used for monitoring how engorged, swollen, receptive, lubricated a clam becomes with various stimulations should also work for a flag pole!!!
I' sure some of the ladies on the board could confirm this!!!LOL
Place one hand on his flag pole. Start off gentley nibbling a little. If the hydraulic action increases the pressure in his flag pole and it get higher and or harder nibble with little more intensity, Repeat where every he requests or you might think you would enjoy nibbling. Repeat, Repeat, Repeat slowly... FYI...Nibble very, very, very slowly with his boys even if you do like tea!!!LOL
My guess is the flag pole won't lie!!!! LMAO