Has he talked about wanting to finish in your mouth, or are you wanting him to finish in your mouth? There are some guys who have hang ups about that, but you won't know if he does unless the two of you talk about it. Maybe he's waiting for the green light from you.
If he has hang ups about it, then the two of you can try to work past that. Have him cum in your hand, on your stomach, chest, etc. Work your way up to licking him clean afterwards, even if it's just a little. If he sees that you actually like it, then it might help him move past any hang ups he might have about it.
Unfortunately, you can't get him there because he's not allowing himself to GO there.
I have thought for a long time hes holding back but he says no but you do have a point i think he just dont want to cum in my mouth thanks
Greeneyes3112003
Greeneyes
Don't misunderstand what I meant.
Welcome to the board greeneyes3112003.
Has he talked about wanting to finish in your mouth, or are you wanting him to finish in your mouth? There are some guys who have hang ups about that, but you won't know if he does unless the two of you talk about it. Maybe he's waiting for the green light from you.
If he has hang ups about it, then the two of you can try to work past that. Have him cum in your hand, on your stomach, chest, etc. Work your way up to licking him clean afterwards, even if it's just a little. If he sees that you actually like it, then it might help him move past any hang ups he might have about it.
my partner in the siggy exchange
greeneyes,
It took me months before i was relaxed enough to cum when my now DW gave me a BJ.
Just talk to him. No pressure. Sex is supposed to be fun.
-lg
Greeneyes