Black and White Dating.....

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Registered: 06-25-2007
Black and White Dating.....
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Wed, 08-22-2007 - 4:53pm

Black and White Dating.....



  • There should be more of it
  • It is fine the way it is
  • there is too much of it
  • I think there should be no B and W dating
  • I'm still thinking about this issue


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Thu, 08-23-2007 - 7:57am

I didn't vote either because I don't see it as an issue to think about.

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Thu, 08-23-2007 - 9:59am

You left out "Who cares? People are people."

How about black/brown? red/yellow? grey/white? olive/white? etc etc etc?

Why get hung up on differences when we're alike in so many more ways?

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Thu, 08-23-2007 - 10:04am

"Issue"? I think it's a NON-issue! Everyone has to do what's right for them. I can't even imagine why anyone would ask the question, particularly in that way.....unless you're involved in a mixed relationship, and you're worried what OTHER people think. If the opinion of strangers is important to you, then maybe you aren't ready for it.

And.......there are a lot more "mixes" than black/white, as Tish mentioned. What about Asian, Middle Eastern, Indian, and on and on.

Whoever is right for you, is right for you. What I or anyone else thinks doesn't have any bearing on what YOU want.

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Registered: 05-30-2007
Thu, 08-23-2007 - 10:48am

I really don't care who dates who as long as they are happy. Now what I don't like is when people try to be what they are not. If you are white you are white, if you are black you are black, if you are latin you are latin, etc. Don't try to be something else. Only reason I bring that up is because lately I've noticed a lot more of that especially white women trying to act black. That annoys me to no end. Must be a midwest thing because I don't remember seeing that when I lived in NYC.

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Registered: 10-28-2006
Thu, 08-23-2007 - 1:16pm


Hi

I have to agree with the other members it really doesn't matter one bit to
me. I think it should be more accepted I say this because where I grew up
it is not accepted I'm not talking about my family I'm talking about
The area I lived in. was 80% white. They wanted to
keep it that way. I know a couple that's black and white and they have
some hard stories.. Who ever makes you happy is what matters. I just wish society
was nicer. Where exactly are you going with this?????

Kareese

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Registered: 01-21-2007
Thu, 08-23-2007 - 1:47pm
I don't think skin colour matters. As long as your not dating the person cause of there hair or eye colour. If you love the person for who they are, then it's ok. I dated a white guy before and I'm black. He mistreated me though so thats why were not together anymore. I'm with a black guy now, but ya. Love doesn't go by skin colour.
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Registered: 06-25-2007
Thu, 08-23-2007 - 9:07pm

I wish all sides, not just one side, could feel free to post comments.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 08-23-2007 - 9:25pm
What sides are you looking for? I know that there are women, men, white, black, heterosexual, and bisexual all posted here.


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Registered: 06-25-2007
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 5:53am

Yes, but they were all for B and W dating.

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Registered: 02-28-2006
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 6:59am
never mind.


Edited 8/24/2007 7:00 am ET by bostonsteve