Black out?

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Registered: 06-28-2005
Black out?
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Wed, 06-29-2005 - 2:05pm
Well, most of you are learning that I'm healing from abuse sexually, I'm new to this part of my life, and I am totally in love. Anyway, I had to share that I few days ago, my boyfriend and I were in bed talking and I started rubbing his feet (which he goes crazy over). Well, one thing led to another, and I began performing oral for him. He had told me that he enjoyed what I usually did, but that he would really like it if I just got completely "messy" with him while going down. So I did. Let me tell you, he kept asking me, "What are you doing? Whatever it is, REMEMBER it!" LOL. Then, when it was getting really intense, he told me to stop because it felt so good, he couldn't stand it! Well, we slowed down, sped up, etc. and eventually he came so hard that he shot up out of the bed and then basically collapsed back. He laid there shuddering, but also really still. This happened longer than usual, and I was a little concerned if he was okay! But he "came to" and told me for the rest of the night that that was the best one he's ever had and that he had blacked out! Has anyone had this happened to them before? He said it happened once before with another partner. Anyway, I really felt good about giving him that kind of satisfaction. He found the energy to return the favor, too...
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Registered: 08-18-2004
In reply to: msbert85
Wed, 06-29-2005 - 2:20pm
i've given some good blow jobs (from what i've been told, at least) but no one has ever blacked out.. jeeze.. that makes me ask too..WHAT ARE YOU DOIN! haha!
You know, tonight i'm going to ask my SO, have you ever blacked out from having such an intense orgasm because i am curious as to what a guys prospective on this is...
He may have just said that to gratify you (i am sure it was amazing, but you know how people can overexagerate) but hey, that is a great compliment!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: msbert85
Wed, 06-29-2005 - 5:10pm
No, I've never blacked out but my vision will get very blurry and I feel drunk during a powerful orgasm. My DH will occasionally lie there and shudder after orgasm though.
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Registered: 01-04-2005
In reply to: msbert85
Wed, 06-29-2005 - 11:10pm
I've never given someone an orgasm that caused them to black out. I would love to know your secret technique if you don't mind sharing.
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Registered: 07-22-2004
In reply to: msbert85
Thu, 06-30-2005 - 12:02am

Well, msbert, from one former abuse victim to another, CONGRATS to you on overcoming...AND for finding such a great partner that you can enjoy with. ;D

Now I've read articles that detail concern about who rarely blackout from orgasms from time to time, but nothing about men yet, until now I suppose, lol. When actual blackouts DO occur from orgasms, I believe the medical community marked that as a of a possibly dangerous condition. Can't remember the details on it too much, but perhaps someone around here has read or heard something similar.

 

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Registered: 06-08-2005
In reply to: msbert85
Thu, 06-30-2005 - 11:04am
I doubt it's a medical condition--that happened to me once when I was seventeen. My girlfriend, first love, and I were complete rabbits, and one time receiving one of her expert bj's I distinctly remember fighting off blacking out as I lay there in the depths of my orgasm. I think my girlfriend thought I'd fallen asleep for a second, but I was just sort of laying there stunned, waiting for the end of the world to come. It was freaking sweet. I'm a pretty tall guy though, and rather well-endowed, they say, so maybe it has something to do with there not being enough blood in your...um...head. ?
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Registered: 05-27-2005
In reply to: msbert85
Thu, 06-30-2005 - 4:17pm
People black out because of a lack of oxygen to the brain. Could you be holding your breath and not realizing it?