Bleeding

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Registered: 08-01-2004
Bleeding
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Mon, 12-20-2004 - 10:50am
So my boyfriend and i just had sex for the first time. i wasn't sure if it was fully in, b.c it hurt so bad that i couldn't really push down, to know for sure. so then when we were done that for about 15 min, we planned on trying again later, when we put our clothes on ... we had blood on us. from me obviously. so it was clearly in. but will it bleed again when we do it for the second time??? did he "pop my cherries" /... will it be as painful the second time?
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: perkins10130
Mon, 12-20-2004 - 11:37am
The hymen (cherry that you're referring to) is right at the entrance to the vagina, it is not up inside of you.

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Registered: 11-30-2004
In reply to: perkins10130
Mon, 12-20-2004 - 6:17pm
I remember my first I actually ripped the opening of my vagina with a small tear! It was not a hymen break, which wouldn't hurt as much I'm guessing. But things do get easier, I am 32 now and have had sex other times, including a boyfriend who was 10 inches! It does stretch and the post about KY and all....it can really help! Now I haven't had sex in almost 2 years and will probably be grabbing that KY myself!