Blood but no period

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Registered: 07-18-2005
Blood but no period
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Thu, 03-02-2006 - 10:27am
Me and my boyfriend were in the mode for some loving so we started kissing and everything. He started fingering me it kinda hurted but not that bad,kinda felt like he cut me with his nail or something then he went down on me and started fingering me harder and it felt good, then when we started having intercourse there was blood on his penis, not that much but enough. I just got off my period three days before. Did he scratch me or something or did he bring my period back down, I really need this question answered if any one can help me out here.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 03-02-2006 - 2:11pm

If you felt pain, then he hurt you. Remember, sex, any kind of sex, is supposed to feel GOOD. So, when and if you feel pain, you should tell him to stop, right THEN, not just grit your teeth and bare it. He can't know when he's being too rough unless you tell him either.

The problem is when he scratches your vaginal wall, if his fingers/nails are dirty, you could end up with an infection. Make sure that he washes his hands before putting them anywhere near your genitals!

But it's also possible that uterine contractions from pleasure were pushing out the last of your flow from your period, as well, resulting in the spotting.

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Registered: 07-10-1999
Thu, 03-02-2006 - 2:59pm
It's possible that you may have gotten some type of scratch or cut in there. It's certainely nothing life threatening if that's the case. But if it starts to hurt, or if the cut opens and bleeds again the next time you have sex with him, then you should really speak to a gynecologist about this. Also, next time he fingers you, make sure his nails are nicely trimmed and well cleaned, and that you have had enough foreplay that you are well lubricated.