Bondage Q's For Those That Enjoy It

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Registered: 09-25-2004
Bondage Q's For Those That Enjoy It
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Sun, 02-20-2005 - 2:28pm

My DH and I like the whole B&D play. I'm always the dominate one and he's the submissive one. I told him recently while we had our many late night talks via phone (he was away) that I wanted to be submissive. I told him that I'm always the dominate one and that I want to give submission a try. I always tie him up and gag him and blindfold him and administer "punishments." I tell him what to do..I treat him like a sex slave when we're in that mode. But, for once I want to be submissive. He says he likes me as the dominant one because it fits me perfectly inside and outside the bedroom. Typically, he wears the pants in the family and has the final word. Of course, he can tell me what to do or what not do (for my own safety always) and I never listen. Just recently it was "Please, Pie, do not move any furniture while I'm away. You'll get hurt and hurt the baby." Did I listen, no? He says he loves how stubborn and dominating I am. But, for once, I want to do the opposite. I want to try being submissive. I want to be tied up and gagged and blindfolded and spanked and all the goodies that go along with B&D. How do I go about this?

And, lastly, because I know this is a long post, how do we begin collecting the gear that goes along with B&D. Most of what we have to use is lying around the house..Stockings, bandanas, rope..Where do I find quality toys?

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Registered: 08-24-2004
Mon, 03-28-2005 - 1:53pm

Hi there. I just wanted to recommend www.sub-shop.com for bondage gear. They are great. I have bought a lot of stuff from them and they have always been quick, high quality and discreet.

Wish I could help with the how to switch roles thing. I have always wanted to be submissive and my boyfriend is quite dominant in bed by nature. We just work out well that way. I don't suppose I would know quite how to change that.

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Registered: 09-25-2004
Tue, 03-29-2005 - 6:55pm

DH and I talked it over, and he says that he finds it incredibly attractive that I am so dominant in bed that I don't think I'll change it!

Thanks for the link! I'm gonna check it out! :)