Boyfriend can't hold a hard on
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Boyfriend can't hold a hard on
| Thu, 07-22-2004 - 11:31pm |
The past few months my boyfriend and I got together and when we have sex ,is it great. Oral and toys and fun. We go places to make it exciteing.
Well the past few weeks,. 4 he is in side and then he goes limp.
He is 58 and I am 38. We been together for 7 years and The only time is he was tired from work and it was just such a hot day we both were ready to give up.
But he has to then sit and rub it and wack it till its hard again. While I wait. It takes about 3 min then finly he gets in blows.
Is this age or he has to much on his mind. We try to go were we can relax . Away from familys friends, phones. Nature were he love, away from the city.
I asked him if it is me and he said no. He dont know what it is.
I told him he feels it comeing on do another position.
But he wont.
I my self is wonrdering if he is getting tired of the relationship. I kind of am. He is marreid and told me for 7 years he wants to get divorced. But I told him the past 6 months I know he dont want to. He argues that he hates the wife and he dont know how to get out.
He has money and I told him like others, he needs to get it done before she dos.For she dont take very thing. He has her g -kids and kids that are older then 17 and they do many drugs and she send the money to them knowing this is what she is suporting,. He is tired of this.
I told him he has a foot in that house use it.
So I think if it could make our relataionship worse. Or he wants to just give up and try with her again. He tells me no.
The sex was the part of the relationship for the start. Now we are more then just that we felll in love and we didnt want that. We are ment for eachother but , he is waisting my time lately I think. I want to date others but he dont want me to.
any addvice. I know thats not right ... my friend and I and married men. You just find the right one when he is takein. So it is a 2 way street. He wanted me. like I wanted him.
Well the past few weeks,. 4 he is in side and then he goes limp.
He is 58 and I am 38. We been together for 7 years and The only time is he was tired from work and it was just such a hot day we both were ready to give up.
But he has to then sit and rub it and wack it till its hard again. While I wait. It takes about 3 min then finly he gets in blows.
Is this age or he has to much on his mind. We try to go were we can relax . Away from familys friends, phones. Nature were he love, away from the city.
I asked him if it is me and he said no. He dont know what it is.
I told him he feels it comeing on do another position.
But he wont.
I my self is wonrdering if he is getting tired of the relationship. I kind of am. He is marreid and told me for 7 years he wants to get divorced. But I told him the past 6 months I know he dont want to. He argues that he hates the wife and he dont know how to get out.
He has money and I told him like others, he needs to get it done before she dos.For she dont take very thing. He has her g -kids and kids that are older then 17 and they do many drugs and she send the money to them knowing this is what she is suporting,. He is tired of this.
I told him he has a foot in that house use it.
So I think if it could make our relataionship worse. Or he wants to just give up and try with her again. He tells me no.
The sex was the part of the relationship for the start. Now we are more then just that we felll in love and we didnt want that. We are ment for eachother but , he is waisting my time lately I think. I want to date others but he dont want me to.
any addvice. I know thats not right ... my friend and I and married men. You just find the right one when he is takein. So it is a 2 way street. He wanted me. like I wanted him.
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| Fri, 07-23-2004 - 12:26am |
Wow, you are all over the place with that post. Your original question regarding his hard on, could be stress, overworked, loss of intrest, a combination of all or none, could be a medical problem.
