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boyfriend has an obsession
| Fri, 09-23-2005 - 7:10pm |
OK, so once my boyfriend started feeling me up, he enjoyed, but now he has an obession with my breast. He always has a need of touching of them at home, when Iam watching tv, while him or I are driving, and mostly at night. Should I worried?

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Great! That wasnt to hard was it? I hope not!
Its not a unreasonable request to keep intimate touching private, and certainly not too much to ask for him to refrain from touching your breasts or do othr distracting things while you are driving.
That being said, My husband and I are guilty of "Road head" on MANY occasions.. and once several years ago even stripped down nude while on the road. Drove a good 30 miles in the buff!!! lol - it was a rural road with no traffic tho.
Oh the crazy things we do when Everything is new!!
He could just be overwhelmed with the wonder of no longer being a teenager facing rejection, but actually having a loving partner who he can reach out to intimately anytime, he may have just been pushing the envelope of appropriateness out of pure joy.
He also might be a developing control freak, who is seeking to establish an authority so secure he can do and touch whatever and whenever no matter how inappropriate. In your case I bet not, but there are freaks out there who do this to there partners.
Freud might have told you he wasnt breast fed enough as an infant, but Freud was a sick bastard, which means he was pretty on target defining sick mental disorders, but really off target when he was dealing with realtively well adjusted people.
Bet your guy is mostly the first, with a little bit of breast on=bsession. He, just make sure you remind him once in a while that as much as your breasts love his attention, you have other lovely erogenous plases that are feeling a little neglected... and hed better start grabin some ass, nibbling earlobe, giving you foot rubs, and whatever else you can con him into giving you in exchange for how much he loves being able to just reach out and touch you so intimately whenever( well, now youve got that a bit more appropriately restrained, almost whenever) he wants.
God 21 and living together, the wonder years... since you two actually talked about this openly and successfully, keep it up, best thing you can do to build something lasting and special..
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