Boyfriend has sex problems
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| Mon, 01-03-2005 - 9:10pm |
If someone can help me that would be great.
Heres the problem, my boyfriend has a problem cuming inside me. When we started to date he told me he was a virgin and never had sex, but was givin blowjobs. I asked why he never had sex and he told me that his ex girlfriend wouldn't becuse she said he had a small penis and it would do nothing for her. he told me she used him for his money and could make him do what she wanted him to do. basically he was whipped.
At first i started out with foreplay, then gave him blowjobs. he came everytime. Then when i felt it was time to have sex he could get his penis to stay erect. he would be hard as rock then soft right before he would incert his penis. I told him it was ok and not to be ashamed, but he beat himself up every time. I told him he was nervous, but he told me he was a guy and that guys are not suppose to get nervous. I thought it was becuase he was a virgin one, two he was scared that he couln't please me becuase he always says he has a small penis, and thrid was becuse i told him he was the sixth boyfriend i was going to have sex with, and that out of all of them only one made me orgamsim, and that only happened once. I told him i couldn't orgasim but i loved the way a penis feels inside me.
Then one day i tried agian to have sex with him and i grabed his penis and put it inside me when it was starting to go soft, but it was hard enof to go in. He moned in pleasure and began to become erect hard as rock. We had sex but as i became tried and dizzy he still wasnt close to cumming. so i gave him a blowjob after and i never heard a man mone or yell when he cumed before like he did. For about three days we had sex about four times and out of the 4 times he went soft 1 time after awhile, and never came on the other three. he told me it hurt him for me to be on top, and that sometimes he dosn't feel anything unless we go slow, but i like fast and hard, so he goes fast and hard for me. but when he goes fast and hard, he dosn't feel any pleasure. He told me he is close to cuming sometimes, but never does. he told me i was to loose, or his dick wasn't big enof for me. i told him it was just fine and it pleasures the heck out of me. I do not fake it ethier i am a screamer. everytime we had sex i want him to cum inside me but he cant and i yell it out everytime.
Them he gets depressed about not being a normall man not being able to enjoy sex the entire time, not cumming inside me and having to ask me to give him a blowjob so he can come. i dont mind giving him a blowjob if it makes him happy. He always tells me sorry, then goes in one of his depressing moods that i hate, but it lasts only a couple of hours because i make him go to the club or a movie, but i know he is still upset.
I thought it was mabe he wansnt attrated to me, but he tells me its not that and that if he wasnt attrated to me, he wounldnt't be my boyfriend.
So the basic problem is that he cant cum inside me, but he can cum inside my mouth. He dosn't feel anything sometimes when we have sex. he comes close to cuming but never does. I dont know what to do about that problem, his mental mind about himself and his thinking about my pleasures and needs, and how to solve that problem.
if anybody can help thanks.

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I would like to that every one for helping me with this problem. No he is not gay, and i have no idea were you guys came up with that idea. i used everybody suggestions and he finnally came inside me. Sometimes he cums fast and sometimes he cums after awhile, but what ever the case i am happy he finnally cam inside me.
thanks evrybody for your help.
I believe it was just one poster who said he was gay.
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