Boyfriend hates "doggystyle"

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Registered: 10-01-2007
Boyfriend hates "doggystyle"
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Mon, 10-01-2007 - 11:51pm

Hopefully this is the right forum to post this in...


Hi I'm new here and I have a problem.


I think that my boyfriend hates the doggystyle position. I say this because he has never orgasmed during the doggystyle position, and he has orgasmed from every other position. I'm the one that brings up the question "Can we switch to doggy?" and he gets tired of it very quickly. Doggystyle is my favorite position and works the best for me.


Maybe I should be thankful that I have a man who is willing to do something he does not enjoy just so that I can still enjoy it. But he doesn't make any noise or even seem to be into it. He only does a few...pumps, and I do the rest of the bouncing until I'm done. Then he's ready to spin me around and do it missionary or have me go on top or spoon.


Is there a reason why a man wouldn't like doggystyle? Other men I have been with loved it more than I do and always wanted to do it. It was like pulling teeth to get them to do it any other way.


Any help appreciated!

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Tue, 10-02-2007 - 1:51am

Of course there's a reason that a man wouldn't like it.........because not all men like the same thing.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 10-02-2007 - 7:08am

Welcome to the board teddygrahm1987.

It's hard to say why your BF doesn't enjoy doggystyle. Maybe he just enjoys positions that feel a bit more intimate.

There are some variations on rear entry positions that you might want to try.

6 Rear Entry Positions
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextechnique/0,,askmen_bx70nb3r,00.html

Also, talk to your BF. It may be that he just needs to hear (in real words) how much you enjoy doggystyle to feel comfortable with it.

Keep us posted on how your experimenting goes.










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Registered: 03-08-2004
Tue, 10-02-2007 - 10:35am

Just because it's a position that he doesn't care for, it doesn't mean he hates it, it could just mean it's not a great position for him.

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Registered: 01-18-2007
Tue, 10-02-2007 - 12:39pm

FYI...something to think about...


Between my 1st marriage and my current DH, I dated a guy very similar to what you described.

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Registered: 08-16-2006
Tue, 10-02-2007 - 1:08pm

Positions, like preferences in food, vary from person to person.

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Registered: 10-09-2007
Tue, 10-09-2007 - 8:30pm

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Registered: 08-30-2007
Tue, 10-09-2007 - 9:01pm

Sounds like something mental more than physical. Some men

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Tue, 10-09-2007 - 10:01pm
Welcome to the board zlibby76, and thanks for joining in. We have an October Roll Call you might want to check out too. It's a good way to get to know a little bit about other members, and to introduce yourself to them.












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Tue, 10-09-2007 - 10:04pm
Thanks for joining in here gentlejohn1. It would be great if you also stopped by the October Roll Call and introduced yourself.



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Registered: 02-09-2008
Sat, 02-09-2008 - 3:10pm

I am on the small side and have trouble with doggy style, so maybe he has the same issues as me. It is difficult to get any deep penetration.