Boyfriend Loses Erection During Sex!

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Registered: 03-27-2004
Boyfriend Loses Erection During Sex!
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Sat, 05-15-2004 - 5:04pm
My boyfriend of 2 1/2 Years has never had a problem with keeping an erection until this last month and a half.

Already, Five times he has lost his erection. Could it be that I don't turn him on anymore?

Please Give Advice.

Thanks!

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Mon, 05-17-2004 - 5:38pm

Being overworked and tired can do that.

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Registered: 10-10-2003
Mon, 05-17-2004 - 8:57pm
Rachel,

Geez, you sound kinda fretful ... I mean it happens once in a while for no particular reason. I don't know, I've probably had sex a couple thousand times, and everything seems to work fine and usually my penis gets absolutely rigid, but now and again -- like a coupla times a year -- that dog just won't hunt.

This past spring I had a really bad life event, and the wierd thing was, two or three times in a row in the days that followed, when I would insert it into an otherwise perfectly delightful vagina, it just lost it altogether. **go figure** Got over my event, and everything was perfectly normal again.

I don't worry about and it's good to be around women who laugh, lightly brush it off, and aren't afraid to either ignore it or talk about it. You don't need to make a big deal out of it, but it's nothing to be silently embarrassed about either. As long as you realize that (i) it's not you, and (ii) it's not a big deal, you should be perfectly fine. Part of being a guy is, you can't fake erections or orgasms!

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Registered: 03-27-2004
Mon, 05-17-2004 - 10:17pm
David -

Yes, I was way too fretful in this situation. I took it personal and made a HUGE deal out of it! And on top of it, I made him feel inadequate.

Do you think he will ever forgive me?

Thanks!

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Registered: 10-30-2003
Mon, 05-17-2004 - 11:34pm

>>Do you think he will ever forgive me? <<


Well, that all depends on just how big a deal you made this into.

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the courage to change the things I

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Tue, 05-18-2004 - 8:12am

Rachel,

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