boyfriend upset about my vibrator

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Registered: 03-26-2005
boyfriend upset about my vibrator
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Sat, 03-26-2005 - 7:29am

Hey all,
Looking for some friendly advice on an intimite subject.

Let me start by explaining that I have never had an orgasm with a man. I have a boyfriend, and have explained this to him, and he understands. I love our sex life and nothing compares to being intimite with someone you love, but the orgasm thing does bother me a little. It is also a difficult, lengthy process to get there by myself, So out of curiousity I decided to get a vibrator. My boyfriend however was upset by this. He feels inadequete. I was hoping it could become something for us both to enjoy, but he just feels like I am cheating on him or something. How can I make him understand I am just exploring my own sexuality?
Thanks, :-S
Froglet

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Registered: 05-05-2005
Thu, 05-05-2005 - 6:22pm

I have spoken with many women who are going through what you are.

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Registered: 09-25-2004
Sat, 05-07-2005 - 7:26pm
Tell him.

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