Breast sex? Ideas?

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Registered: 04-18-2007
Breast sex? Ideas?
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Wed, 04-18-2007 - 10:49am
I have come out of a marriage 12 yrs and no sex. The guy I am dating is very sexual and he please me sexually. I want to be able to please him too. I am large chested and he wants to F.... my breast. I feel stupid but have no clue. Also would love ideas of pleaseing a man besides Oral. We do that. I do find more stimualting when he is assertive...He loves when I am assertive.. Any ideas....
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Registered: 12-12-2006
Wed, 04-18-2007 - 1:34pm

He basically goes between your breasts, and you would hold them tight against his penis.

As for being more assertive, just be the one to suggest things, or initiate sex. Ask him to explain exactly what he wants you to do. Everyone has different ideas about what "assertive" is.

Besides oral and intercourse, the only other major sexual thing that many men like is anal sex. He may or may not be into that, ask him. Or maybe he'd like it in the kitchen, or on the living room floor.

Anything that he says that you're not clear on, ASK him....that's the only way to know what he wants.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 04-18-2007 - 6:54pm

Welcome to the board anewann, and welcome back into the world of sex! Women with any size breasts can usually have breasts sex, but having larger breasts allows you a bit more creativity. It sounds like that is something he is also looking for ;-)

Try these positions for breasts sex:

-Lying on your back, have him put his penis between your breasts and you use your hands to push your breasts together as he thrusts between them. You can also use your tongue or mouth as part of the play as the head of his penis meets your mouth.

-Have him lie on his back and you come up between his legs. Surround his penis with your breasts and use your hands to push them together while moving them up and down along his member.

-Have him sit on the edge of the bed (or sofa) and you kneel on the floor in front of him. Use your breasts as described above.

-In a bubblebath, have him lie back and you on your knees (or you lie back and him between your breats) and as he moves between your breasts, drizzle bubble bath solution on your skin. It creates a great lubrication and adds to the excitement of him seeing his penis emerging from the bubbles.

A lot of times when a guy says he would like you to be more assertive, he is wanting you to initiate more often and be more creative. Here are some things that might work:

- dirty talk
- oral sex with prostate massage
- anal sex
- different sexual positions
- sex in different places
- touch yourself while having sex with him
- hand job

If you hang around the board for a while, you will probably see others ask questions or suggest things that may look interesting to you too. Feel free to ask questions or post responses -- it's a great way to pick up some new techniques.



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Registered: 03-12-2007
Wed, 04-18-2007 - 9:42pm

i prefer the first way b/c i feel like the guy can get more out of it, but i think my bf did'nt like it that way and prefered me just doing it on top of him.

it's not hard. just push your boobs together around his penis and he'll get excited :-P

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Registered: 03-11-2005
Thu, 04-19-2007 - 5:44am

Here are some assertive things we both like.

Mutual masturbation
Playing with toys
Dirty talk(It drives me wild when she says "Put your big d in me and f me deep and hard).
Oral
Breast sex(Just lube up and let him thrust between your boobs while you hold them together)
Different positions
Use an anal toy to masssage his prostate while you give him a BJ.
Watch group sex DVD'S together

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Registered: 01-14-2005
Thu, 04-19-2007 - 11:31am
We enjoy brest sex, DW can be assertive by "demanding" that I lick up my ejaculate from her brests, neck, chin, and face.
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Registered: 01-04-2007
Thu, 04-19-2007 - 12:47pm
Hi there...having him put his penis between your breasts can be lots of fun for both of you. I find it very arousing to be able to see his penis moving in and out as you sometimes can't during regular intercourse... If you don't have any problem with him ejaculating ON you, then it's even better. I love to watch my guy cum on me. :) Have fun. Everyone else has suggested great things. Whatever you do I know he will love it.
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Registered: 04-18-2007
Thu, 04-19-2007 - 2:33pm

Thank you all for the ideas and explaining to me. Feel stupid at times.I just want to not feel more stupid in front of him. Though he finds it funny at times but just was not into sex. So I am trying. I am shy so it may take me a while and I do not want to bore him..

Thank you all for the response.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 04-19-2007 - 3:00pm

Try to relax and enjoy the new experiences. I'm sure he'll love anything you do and the effort that you put into it. He knows that you are shy, and he knows that your last relationship was not very sexual. Your efforts will make him feel very special, and if something does turn out to be silly, it's fun to laugh in the bedroom too ;-)

I'm not sure if you drink alcohol, and I would never recommend that you get drunk, but having a glass or two of wine (or equivalent) with dinner is a great way to relax a bit.



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Registered: 03-12-2007
Thu, 04-19-2007 - 3:07pm

when i did it on top i used lube and besides the but sex i moved up and down his body with my boobs which he enjoyed even more

my bf and i enjoy ice cubes too. you could try that