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breasts not sensitive
| Fri, 10-22-2004 - 5:10pm |
My breasts just aren't very sensitive, they never have been. My bf will play with them and my nipples will get hard, but I really can't feel any pleasure. Is there anything that I can do to get more feeling out of them? I saw a posting about women getting orgasms just from playing with their breasts, and I would like to be able to do that too, or at least get to feel something.

I'm not sure what you can do. You could try getting your b/f to spend some quality time with them, licking, sucking and fondling and even squeezing them. You can lie back and focus on the sensations and see if anything that he does gets a better reaction or feels better than other things.
You could try that on your own too. Try masturbating and playing with your breasts yourself. Use saliva or lube on your nipples so that your fingers aren't dry. Maybe you could try using a vibrator on them too just to test different sensations?
I don't think that it matters if your breasts are relatively insensitive as long as you are enjoying sex overall. Then again, it may be that you just haven't found any breast stimulation that feels good yet. The sensitivity of your breasts will likely vary during the month depending on your hormones too.
ctara, I was one of the posters who could O from breast stimulation. But upon seeing your sadness - I must give more information.
When I was younger, I was just as you are - I enjoyed having them caressed from a loving point of view, but there was no particular sensitivity. However, that changed when I became pregnant at age 29. Being pregnant gave my breasts (and particularly my nipples) this amazing sensitivity that I'd never experienced before.
After having children (they are now 7 and 5), the sensitivity has settled down a bit, but not completely. So I still enjoy it much more than I used to pre-kids.
Aisha
Edited 10/22/2004 7:02 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
Edited 10/23/2004 12:44 pm ET ET by root_of_all_evil