breasts not sensitive

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breasts not sensitive
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Fri, 10-22-2004 - 5:10pm
My breasts just aren't very sensitive, they never have been. My bf will play with them and my nipples will get hard, but I really can't feel any pleasure. Is there anything that I can do to get more feeling out of them? I saw a posting about women getting orgasms just from playing with their breasts, and I would like to be able to do that too, or at least get to feel something.
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Fri, 10-22-2004 - 6:26pm

I'm not sure what you can do. You could try getting your b/f to spend some quality time with them, licking, sucking and fondling and even squeezing them. You can lie back and focus on the sensations and see if anything that he does gets a better reaction or feels better than other things.

You could try that on your own too. Try masturbating and playing with your breasts yourself. Use saliva or lube on your nipples so that your fingers aren't dry. Maybe you could try using a vibrator on them too just to test different sensations?

I don't think that it matters if your breasts are relatively insensitive as long as you are enjoying sex overall. Then again, it may be that you just haven't found any breast stimulation that feels good yet. The sensitivity of your breasts will likely vary during the month depending on your hormones too.

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Registered: 10-13-2004
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Fri, 10-22-2004 - 6:33pm

ctara, I was one of the posters who could O from breast stimulation. But upon seeing your sadness - I must give more information.

When I was younger, I was just as you are - I enjoyed having them caressed from a loving point of view, but there was no particular sensitivity. However, that changed when I became pregnant at age 29. Being pregnant gave my breasts (and particularly my nipples) this amazing sensitivity that I'd never experienced before.

After having children (they are now 7 and 5), the sensitivity has settled down a bit, but not completely. So I still enjoy it much more than I used to pre-kids.

Aisha

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Fri, 10-22-2004 - 7:00pm
You could ask him to change the stimulation he gives and see what happens or you can just accept that you're different. Many women have less sensitive nipples, you aren't the only one, for sure! But I don't think nipple sensitivity is something you can learn to feel or purposely change though. You either have it or you don't. Now, after pregnancy or nursing, some women become more sensitive so that's a possibility to look forward to. But, rather than bemoan what you don't feel, be grateful for what you do.


Edited 10/22/2004 7:02 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Sat, 10-23-2004 - 12:38am
You can get pleasure by how much your bf is enjoying them. You can relish in it, in a similar way as when you fellate him or manually stimulate him. Knowing that it turns him on, may eventually turn you on. And as long as they don't hurt, what is the harm in it? You never know, one day, you may suddenly experience pleasure. I had no idea that the back of my neck had so much power over me until my husband gently bit it. Now, THAT can nearly bring me to an orgasm. As John Mayer so graciously put it..."Your Body is a Wonderland" ;-)




Edited 10/23/2004 12:44 pm ET ET by root_of_all_evil